I am a virgin, but my bf fingered me and I didn't bleed please tell me this means I'm still a virgin!!
You are still technically a virgin until you have sexual intercourse, when a guy's penis penetrates your vagina, irrespective of the state of your hymen.
The fact that the fingering didn't cause bleeding doesn't mean your hymen is not ruptured.
- It might have already been ruptured
- It might have ruptured without bleeding
Is an intact hymen important to you culturally or religiously?
You can check the state of your hymen using a hand-mirror.
How old are you? Do you know your body, and what you are looking for?
I hope this helps as a start.