Me and my bf have been together nearly 10yrs now and have 2 kids I'm 24 and ge is 26 he goes to school at night I trusted him so much I don't look at his phone I don't call during school hours and just wait till he comes home I never question of anything. So anyways I was folding my bed and suddenly I see his phone flashing I just had to peek for some reason I never ever get the urge to snoop but this time I did. I saw a trail of messages back and forth he denied the messages on his phone I showed him he was speechless. Then he says their just friends from school the messages contained like I work out here today get me some starbucks and stuff he claims she's nothing and insists I don't call her what am I to do..
Hi Girlfriend,
1. He denied the "trail of messages" exist - it's not just one so it wasn't a mistake.
2. He then said they were "just friends" even though she's telling where she works out and is looking for him to get her Starbuck's.
At least one of these is a lie, possibly both. It might be time to see where he goes after school.
How about asking him for a commitment? As in marriage? See what happens with that.
It's too bad there are children involved here.
Good luck.
If he is lying to you, and he is, about messages on his cell phone then you have some issues in your relationship. Don't doubt yourself because I promise you he will give you every reason for you to do just that. If he won't do it in front of you.........he shouldn't do it behind you! Why hasn't he told you about his "friend"...........