I am in a relationship of almost 10 months and have been living with my boyfriend for 5months. I really do love him and believe he is a pretty genuine guy and does love me too. But day in day out he always has an opinion on maybe what I should wear.... or how something doesn't suit me. I am overweight but I am working on that I realise I have to do that for myself. But when he is constantly telling me how I should be, I feel he is taking my confidence away and its degrading. I think he does actually realise he is doing it to an extent. And I have just realised I have been looking at him for approval of everything before I just accept something that I am actually happy with.
I don't want to be judged all the time, but I still love him! We even talk about getting married!
What can I do to sort this out?
I don't want to be judged all the time, but I still love him! We even talk about getting married!
What can I do to sort this out?
I'm sorry but I have to ask "what's love go to do with it? No one should ever be degraded especially in a relationship where there is supposed to be love. If he really loved you he'd pick you up instead of putting you down. If you're happy then he should be happy also or atleast help you reach happiness.