We have been together for over a year now and still havent had sex, it took us awhile to even try. Now though whenever we try to have sex he cant get/stay hard. When i do anything else to him its just fine but once it comes to sex its just gone. I know its cuz he is nervous, although he has not attmited it to me. Neither of us are virgins, if that means anything i dont know. But my question is, is there anything i can do to calm him down or make him feel more comfortable? I am personally really sexual, am I being too sexual/ Could it be something im doing thats making him so nervous?
i have the exact same problem and am looking for help myself i cannot stay hard wen we try to have intercoarse i dont feel nervous i dont no what to do :-(
Here is something that both of ya'll can do. Try something diffrent. have your partner dress up into something that you know will help you stay up, or help them stay up. Ask your partner, what makes then comfortable, or something that close to that nature. And then you can see if it works. So try it out, and let me know the results.
And i wish both of you all the best luck in getting someone to stay up, or staying up yourself. 8) :) :D
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And i wish both of you all the best luck in getting someone to stay up, or staying up yourself. 8) :) :D
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