I've been with my bf for 2 years we've broken up once and. I was faithful even then , he said he was too. He told me when we started dating that he had been tested for stds and was negative and I was too, over the past few years I've had uti problems because of my birth control and have gotten every blood test done and urine test possible to rule out everything, well my boyfriend got a pimple on the head of his penis sorry to be so descriptive a few days ago and last night he sat me down and said we need to talk , well of course I thought he was breaking up with me cuz that's what he did before and he's likeo I'm not breaking up with you but I think we should get tested for stds. Because your utis may be because of an std . I told him I had been tested already and I feel like he doesn't believe me when I tell him I'm negative. I'm extremely angry with him and that's great he wants to be tested but to word it that way and not believe me when I've said I've been tested a fw months ago from the problems really hurts my feelings I feel like a he doesn't trust me and b. I would have gotten it from him which means he probably cheated on me . I think its nothing, I've not had any other problems. Have been tested before and I've read getting a pimple there can happen and I think he's being extremely disrespectful.... I need opinions do I have a right to be mad at him, he's totally taken away my interest for having sex with him for a looonnnngggg time. Even though I know it will be negative I just want to be able to explain why it hurt my feelings sooo bad especially since we've already been together for 2 years so unless he did something he should have and btw he asked if ihad sex with anyone ssince we had been togetherthere should be no quetion in his mind that its nothing.
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ithink you should just go get checked out,
dont worry about it, it will all be fine!
dont worry about it, it will all be fine!
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I know it will be ok its just totally wrong for him to approach it that way he was pretty much pointing a fingeer at me because he made sure to say he was checked a few times and didn't listen to me. Neither of us have any other symptoms I think he's being rude and rediculous and he doesn't understand why I would be mad.how can I tell him he's being a total jerk without being mean to him I don't want a huge argument.
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I REALLY DONT WANT TO UPSET YOU BUT IF YOU GOT TESTED A WHILE BACK AND THEY WERE NEG AND HE JUST SUDDENLY SAT YOU DOWN SAYING OH ER WE NEED TO GET TESTED ALARM BELLS WOULD BE RINGING 1 UR TESTS WERE CLEAR YOU HAVENT CHEATED 2 THIS SPOT COME UP AND SUDENLY HES PARANOID 3 IF HE HADNT HAVE SEX WITH SUM 1 ELSE THE SPOT WOULDNT BOTHER HIM THE ONLY THING I COULD THINK OF IS LIKE YOU SAY HE DONT TRUST YOU BUT BEING A MALE HE WOULD CERTANATLY LET YOU KNW IF HE THOUGHT U WRE AT IT DONT BE AFRAID OF ARGUMENT YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT
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I understand why you are mad but everyone has to protect themselves and that includes ruling out the possibility that you have cheated. I'm in a similar situation, my boyfriend called me just lastnight and asked me if i had cheated or had an STD before we started dating (7 months ago) as he has noticed bumps on his penis. I told him that I had never cheated an got quite upset that he asked me but at the same time was happy he had confronted me. Im sure if you were in your boyfriends position and no matter how much you trust him you would still want to be 100% sure.
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