Hello. I am a 21 years old woman and I have problems in my relationship. It is unbelievable! I met a perfect guy, and it turns out he is shy as hell. I have to drag him to bed! I am not a nimpho, but he is just too shy! Do you have any idea how I could get him to be more aggressive, and self-confident?
I think that talk is always the best thing for solving problems. You should explain to him what bothers you, and what you would like. Ask him what he doesn't like in you, and try to respect his answer. And if he can't change, maybe he is just that way, and you should respect that in him. But overall, talk is the answer to your problem (and if that doesn't work, you could always rape him, right ;-) )