My clitoris is abnormal size, about size of middle toe; should I hide it?

i may not know you but i must let you know that love supersid all .if you are a caring mother ,wife and sister you will never lose .do not give up becouse of natural blessings .just open up and fill it well.

You need to embrace your gift. I have been with a couple of women with very large, protruding clits. Not only were they easier to kiss, lick and suck on their clit, they were also more sensitive than most and were very responsive to stimulation--there is nothing sexier or more appealing to a real man than a woman who is responsive to their touch. These women were also much more orgasmic than the average woman when having intercourse. I have a biffer than average penis and their protruding clits would be rubbed against as I was sliding and thrusting my big penis into them, causing multi-orgasms that built in intensity the more orgasms they had. Please don't maim yourself or be embarrassed as any real man who appreciates women will thoroughly enjoy your big, protruding clit. Feel free to send me a picture of your beautiful part and I will let you know how it is not freakish, just better than the average. I'll bet you have a very hot, sexy, uninhibited side of ready to be brought out.

Most of the sensitivity of the clitoris is in the tip so it's not advisable to amputate it. Men are much more concerned about your being able to orgasm . And after you become accustomed to sex, so will you. Women come with all kinds of development and some groups prize their unique attributes. For example, in some cultures a tendency for a woman to grow a mustache is considered a sign of good sexual capacity. Having a large labia (the inner and outer lips) was considered a great enhancement to the man's pleasure in some groups (because of the increased contact and friction). I have a set of books, called "Mothers", written in the early 1900's. It has a thousand pages discussing the practices and knowledge of all the cultures then known in the world. Our biggest problem now is that ordinary media standardizes expectations and loses much of the detailed information that used to be passed on from person to person in the cultures of the past. It's not a "bad gene". It's probably something simple like having a little more of an adrenal hormone while you were developing. I assure you, it's better to have a little more clitoris than to have a little less. In the U.S. the ordinary ob-gyn doesn't have a very good education in all the variations. I found , at 38, that no ob-gyn I had ever seen had addressed a very obvious difference, even after two children. Because I'd never read a detailed anatomy I hadn't realized that I was different and no man I had been with had noticed or spoken of it. In my case, it made reaching orgasm more difficult and I wish it had been addressed. In men, the variation I had, is always addressed and corrected, it's very simple to do. It would have been addressed in Saudi Arabia, because there is more of a cultural sensitivity to the issue than in the U.S. I would say not to consult any ordinary physician if you want to discuss change. Go to one of the very specialized clinics, like Mayo or Kinsey. Expect that it will require effort, time and money. Be very careful because there are plenty of incompetent surgeons ready to attempt anything. But I would try learning to appreciate the happy accident. Because orgasms will be much easier to reach. It is a matter where most men adapt and learn to prize the uniqueness of their wife. If you are curious and courageous you will find that there are videos on the internet (porn) which feature sex and women with larger clitorises. Which means that there is a lot of sentiment among the half of humanity, called men, for enjoying women having larger clitorises. Men understand it because their penises are comprised of the same tissue as the clitoris. So they see a larger clitoris as easy to find and pleasure.

As far as clitorises are concerned for me the larger the better as I love oral and the feel of it in my mouth

You are actually pretty lucky. Think of all the fun things you could do with it. Try a full body clitoral suspension from a piece of rope. As you twirl around naked from the rope, it will surely turn on your boyfriend. Also, try some strength training exercises. Then, if you don't like the sex you are getting, you could punch your boyfriend in the balls just using your clit. Believe me, you are blessed!!

I wish you were my woman. Because to me, a woman with a huge clit is just like a man with a huge penis. They are proud and you should be too. I love sexxy big clits, but cant' find one of my own. You are in the driver's set hun. Back in the 70's they use to laugh at black women with the big lips and big ass. Now everyone wants a nice J Lo ass and plump lips. You need to put that thing in some mans mouth and you can control him like a puppet.

me tooo, Im 23 and I wanna do something about it

No need to, as you can see there are many here that think it's good. How big is it?

Ninja1200 I agreee with you 100%

I think you are blessed, I have always found a large clitoris to be extremely sexy.I am sure your new love will find it sexy too. Love yourself as you are and learn to enjoy your and share your body.

so, i was just doing a little research here and after reading all these responses im actually a little jealous of you! love your body as it is, it sounds like a fantasic gift lol

First of all I ran into this post by accident, so in order to be able to read from you again I have bookmarked this web-page to avoid getting difficulties finding it again. Second you will have to forgive me if I am not understandable, it is because English is not my first language. Now back to the topic. I feel sorry for you for not being happy with your own BEAUTIFUL body. Like what your dad told you, should know that every one in this world is different from others. You have got a nerve to speak about yourself but there are many others out there who cannot dare talk about anything. I think you DO NOT have any abnormality on your body but rather you are just different from any other person, and that is why you are so perfect and special. The feeling that you don't want your sole-mate to see or touch your clitoris is yours and yours only. You should stop thinking that all people think or feel the same about you. It does not mean that just because you were laughed at by your peers in school, he will also laugh at you. For instance, if I were your man I would be a happy man because big clitoris is my flavor when I look to a woman's womanhood! If I knew in advance that a woman has got such a big one like yours I would do anything to marry her so that I can enjoy it all alone for the rest of my life! Don't feel shy about it it is okay we are all different.

You make women like us feel good.

If you find a partner who truly and honestly loves and cares for you, physical attributes are not important. There is more to you - everyone - than the size or shape of body parts. If my wife had told me she had six toes and a tail. I would love her the same. We all are unique.

Personally, as a male I would be thrilled if my wife's clitoris where larger! It isn't and it doesn't matter.

Are you crazy its the body you were born with you should embrace your body and all its attributes. ...you are who you are forget about your silly feelings and have sex normally youll have a great time just let go and youll blow him away.... (literally)