So long story short, my boyfriend fingered me roughly which is my preferance and in prior situations I've never come across something like this. I noticed afterward that everything (clitoris, labia, etc.) was swollen and sticking out. I also bled a little and I'm sure it was not menstruation. This happend just last night so the swolleness has gone down but now when I urinate it hurts wayyyyyyyy ttoooooo muuuch. To a point I don't evem want to use the bathroom.
Please, can anybody give me at least a clue to what's going on?
Okay so don't worry about it but I think you have a urinary infection. This happens when bacteria goes inside the bladder and infects it. Go to a doctor and ask them about it that should help. Next time he does so, go to the bathroom right away afterwards and pee so that if any bacteria goes in, the urine will destroy it and bring it out of your system. Once inside the bladder, the urine can't do anything for it.
It could be what Kim says or it might just have been TOO rough. If you like it rough, you probably wouldn't feel much pain until after it was over. When you are aroused and in the heat of passion your brain releases endorphins that keep you from feeling pain for the moment.
My Army buddies who served in Vietnam used to tell about having to check the mouths of girls who were going to give them oral sex, for razor blades. They would somehow hold one in their mouth so they could slice you up pretty bad after they got you in a state of high arousal. You wouldn't feel a thing until after it was over, according to them.
Did he play with your urethral opening, trying to insert his finger. Some girls like that but it can hurt if it gets stretched too much. If you don't believe that a small finger will fit, you should see the size of a catheter.
If there is/are any slits in the skin where urine gets on it, it will burn like hell. My foreskin used to hurt like that for a couple days after sex when I was first married. It was a little tight and it would get tiny splits in it from being forced back over the head. I didn't feel a thing during sex though. I used to dread having to pee afterward.
i masturbate alot with my clit but the thing that covers it is huge and my vaginja flaps wont cover i and its gross
The pain during urination could be a UTI or temporary trauma to the bladder inflicted by the fingering; the G-spot area is right next to the bladder.