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Hi I was reading a post about a hooded clitoris and well I think I have the opposite!

Whenever my boyfriend tries to manually stimulate me, I won't let him because my clit is too sensitive to be touched.
I try but after a few seconds it is too much to bare, it's between a pain and a tickleing feeling, then I have to make him stop..
Could this be why i've never had an orgasm.........Ever? I usually just prefer a tounge to a hand because it's easier. It's not my boyfriend because I've experienced this with everyone i've been with.

Am I completely weird?
Hi honey! 1st you are NOT weird! What you experience, I believe you might have Pudendal Nerve Entrapment! Look this up and check and see if it relates too you! also have you ever had a spine injury or pelvic trauma? And also do you have diabetes? These can lead to Clitoral sensitivity/pain! I would advise you to go and see a gynecologist to see if they can get to the bottom of this! Also you can use Lidocaine, but I would suggest medical help 1st and foremost! Hope this helps!
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And have you ever tried manually stimulating yourself? It's far easier that way for you to determine the exact amount of stimulation you need, before it turns to pain. Also, this kind of sensitivity can happen when you have persistent yeast infection which dries out the vaginal area.
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It happens to me if I'm not "excited" enough. Just ask your boyfriend to kiss you in sensitive places (like neck, breasts, thighs) to get you a little more aroused and maybe it'll feel better when he tries rubbing your clit. It always works for me ^-^ (Even when masturbating it doesn't feel good if I'm not excited enough).
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Just wondering ---- they say the hood is essentially the same as the foreskin and your clit is the equivalent of the head of the penis.

Most of us guys with a foreskin have had the problem of an overly sensitive glans. The way we fix that is to hold the foreskin back and keep touching and rubbing the glans until it's no longer sensitive. Letting the head dry out and forcing it to endure constant contact with whatever touches it eventually desensitizes it. This is what happens when a boy is circumcised.

Why can't you lift your hood and touch and rub your clit until it's no longer sensitive, or have the hood removed so it is always exposed causing it to become desensitized?

I don't see why that wouldn't work just as well for you girls as it does for us guys.

 

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