It's really hard during that transitional time where you're living with him but you want him out of your life. I'm glad you're going for Vegas!! At least you can have a lot of fun that will stay in Vegas. Trust me, you need the trip right now... :-) And let me know how it goes, k??
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healthnfitnessguy, i had a blast!!!! Wat a place. Lights, people, food, action, (none 4 me) but it was great anyway, not that i was lookin ;-)
All kiddin aside, the point has already been made for next year, oh ya. This time we will plan it better. Because we were so excited, we really didn't look into all the freebies that we could have got, damn it >:( I never picked up my coupon book worth over 500 bucks in half off stuff. Oh well, live and learn.
Now i'm gettin sick with being out in the 100 plus heat then goin into our room which was like 50, now it's only 58 here at home. I feel sniffly and sneezy and my face feels like an elephant is sittin on it.
Our flights were all good, a little turbulance never hurt anyone!! Left Vegas Friday nite at 11:30, arrived in Atlanta at 6, don't forget the 3 hour time flip, never left Atlanta till 10 a.m. and arrived in Rochester at 12:30 p.m. Nite flyin is sort of scarey but we made it o.O just fine. It was pourin in Atlanta as we flew in and flew out but it cleared up within the half hour in the air. Can you say "jet lag" ?????
I had a real nice time and i can't wait till next year.
All kiddin aside, the point has already been made for next year, oh ya. This time we will plan it better. Because we were so excited, we really didn't look into all the freebies that we could have got, damn it >:( I never picked up my coupon book worth over 500 bucks in half off stuff. Oh well, live and learn.
Now i'm gettin sick with being out in the 100 plus heat then goin into our room which was like 50, now it's only 58 here at home. I feel sniffly and sneezy and my face feels like an elephant is sittin on it.
Our flights were all good, a little turbulance never hurt anyone!! Left Vegas Friday nite at 11:30, arrived in Atlanta at 6, don't forget the 3 hour time flip, never left Atlanta till 10 a.m. and arrived in Rochester at 12:30 p.m. Nite flyin is sort of scarey but we made it o.O just fine. It was pourin in Atlanta as we flew in and flew out but it cleared up within the half hour in the air. Can you say "jet lag" ?????
I had a real nice time and i can't wait till next year.
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GOOD! I'm glad to hear that you got your mind off things and that's the whole point. Man now I wanna go to VEgas now. Did you end up going to the MGM Grand? I heard that they have the biggest buffet there but I am not sure if I have the hotel right.
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hey healthnfitnessguy, i don't want to mess up the thread talkin about Vegas here, but i will see you over on my post regarding Vegas bein off the hook!!!! I have a problem with de railing threads, i should know better :$
Today is Tuesday and the count down begins. Two weeks ago i was anticapating my trip, actually i was "high in the sky" at this time, now i am getting ready to move out of my home.
He is very smug, but i am the adgitator, i can't help it. He has already warned me that he would have me removed by the Sheriff, hmmm, i'm a tad pissed off, ya think??
All the money is down on my apartment, the truck is ordered, cable TV and the power company is on board, i am packing daily and getting more and more furious with each box i fill.
How dare he? Where is stand up guy that i thought i married? All he had to do was tell me, i don't know how i would have reacted at the time, but at least he would have respected me enough and our years together to spit it out of his mouth.
Dear wife, i hate to tell you this, but i have feelings for another, fade to black......after i woke up i am sure that i would have handled it differently, but to find out thru the grapevine shows me that the man i married is a coward at best.
We are splitting things up from the house, some for him and some for me. I had to run my face for a bedroom set and a sofa, aaarrrggghh, more damn money to spend. My kids are all very supportive of me and they are all stepping up to help. They will help me move and my son and his wife already bought me a 200 gift card to be able to fill my fridge and pantry, it's their house warming gift. I did not want it but he quickly changed it from, "here mom, i feel bad" to, "happy house warming, now have us over for dinner"
My nerves are shot and my thinking is all over the place, but i will push thru. I'm tired of sleeping on the sofa, it really bothers my back.
Of course when he gets up in the morning, all the damn lights go on, and he coughs and talks to the dogs, drags his feet across the kitchen floor and pushes chairs in, making that scratchy sound on the tile. Now i am up at 5:30, great. It seems hes quieter when i'm up, go figure. Friday morning i will pick up the u-haul and begin my decent into single hood, what to do, what to do??
My friends and family tell me it's a new beginning, a new chapter, but in reality it's not supposed to be this way, but come to think of it, this is reality, and reality bites.
So.....he gets the big house with the 5 acres and the ponds, his mothers inheritance, to which i am entitled to a big fat ZERO, the dogs, his freedom, his s10, which i was driving, but i have my jeep, and he gets to have his affair. All while i get it stuck in my,.....fill in the blanks. I guess when you can lie with a straight face and sound really convincing to your big buck $5,000 retainer lawyer, you win.
But in the end, i hope to see him face down in his own vomit, he will fail eventually. After the money is gone, so will all his good times, but hopefully i will have been strengthened by all this. If it doesn't kill me, it will certainly make me stronger.
Today is Tuesday and the count down begins. Two weeks ago i was anticapating my trip, actually i was "high in the sky" at this time, now i am getting ready to move out of my home.
He is very smug, but i am the adgitator, i can't help it. He has already warned me that he would have me removed by the Sheriff, hmmm, i'm a tad pissed off, ya think??
All the money is down on my apartment, the truck is ordered, cable TV and the power company is on board, i am packing daily and getting more and more furious with each box i fill.
How dare he? Where is stand up guy that i thought i married? All he had to do was tell me, i don't know how i would have reacted at the time, but at least he would have respected me enough and our years together to spit it out of his mouth.
Dear wife, i hate to tell you this, but i have feelings for another, fade to black......after i woke up i am sure that i would have handled it differently, but to find out thru the grapevine shows me that the man i married is a coward at best.
We are splitting things up from the house, some for him and some for me. I had to run my face for a bedroom set and a sofa, aaarrrggghh, more damn money to spend. My kids are all very supportive of me and they are all stepping up to help. They will help me move and my son and his wife already bought me a 200 gift card to be able to fill my fridge and pantry, it's their house warming gift. I did not want it but he quickly changed it from, "here mom, i feel bad" to, "happy house warming, now have us over for dinner"
My nerves are shot and my thinking is all over the place, but i will push thru. I'm tired of sleeping on the sofa, it really bothers my back.
Of course when he gets up in the morning, all the damn lights go on, and he coughs and talks to the dogs, drags his feet across the kitchen floor and pushes chairs in, making that scratchy sound on the tile. Now i am up at 5:30, great. It seems hes quieter when i'm up, go figure. Friday morning i will pick up the u-haul and begin my decent into single hood, what to do, what to do??
My friends and family tell me it's a new beginning, a new chapter, but in reality it's not supposed to be this way, but come to think of it, this is reality, and reality bites.
So.....he gets the big house with the 5 acres and the ponds, his mothers inheritance, to which i am entitled to a big fat ZERO, the dogs, his freedom, his s10, which i was driving, but i have my jeep, and he gets to have his affair. All while i get it stuck in my,.....fill in the blanks. I guess when you can lie with a straight face and sound really convincing to your big buck $5,000 retainer lawyer, you win.
But in the end, i hope to see him face down in his own vomit, he will fail eventually. After the money is gone, so will all his good times, but hopefully i will have been strengthened by all this. If it doesn't kill me, it will certainly make me stronger.
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dark_red asked if there was any thing new for October..........i have something new, well not really brand new.
After some intense investigation on my part, today, October 1st, i cracked the caper.
The other women in my husbands life is his X wife, wife number 3, yes i am number 4 :$ :$ :$
I don't know how i feel about that one but it really doesn't matter, an affair is an affair. I guess i'm sort of relieved now that i can actually put a name with a phone number. Whew, i'm exhausted 8)
After some intense investigation on my part, today, October 1st, i cracked the caper.
The other women in my husbands life is his X wife, wife number 3, yes i am number 4 :$ :$ :$
I don't know how i feel about that one but it really doesn't matter, an affair is an affair. I guess i'm sort of relieved now that i can actually put a name with a phone number. Whew, i'm exhausted 8)
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again, this was a long time ago but you sound so insightful and mature that I feel sure you got through this stronger than - though still as admirable as - before. All the very best.
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