My parents don't understand me!

my parents don't understand anything in my liiifffffeee!!!!! they just keep saying we treat you as an adult so act like an adult . i mean seriously I AM NOOT AN ADULT !!! why do they expect me to be one. yesterday my mom just shout on me for asking 'what do we have on lunch ' my mom shout at nothing and the worst thing that my dad don't have a freaking voice. any thing my mom is mad about she till my dad and my dad just screeaams at me, and he don't know what realy happen. they just DON'T UNDERSTAND ANYTHING I SAY even if I say I have got an A in math, what they reply to me is why didn't you got an A++, I mean ehhhhhhhhhh :(:(((,I just want them to UNDERSTAND ME, but that seams that it is TOO MUCH TO ASK.

i just feel depressed with my parents.. they never trust me.. they hate everything abt me.. i am 20 yrs and still they lock me up like a prisioner,, they dont allow me to go out if if i had some important works,, they just dont trust me,, all they want is i should be staying home and studying even on holidays too ,, i am not allowed to have fun or anyone in my life,, they make me feel like c**p and i am depreesed about everything around me,, god save me###

Hmm it's quite obvious

Are you kidding, parents don’t listen to that sh*t, because they can’t admit that they are wrong, parents want their child to be the next Oprah of Larry king, when you have these parents, your powerless, so just do yourself a favor, pray for when you move out.

Buddy, your 20, stop acting like a man child, I know I sound like your mom, but you need to get a job, and move out, or move in with a friend, or whatever your options are, when you move out of the house, you are free to make your own rules.

I have some issues with my parents. I feel like they don't understand me as a child in what i need. To begin, i think I'm not appreciated by them. I did my best in school. Graduated with flying colours and i was catagorized as the best student in school. Yet, i feel like they weren't appreciating what I've done for them. They promised me a lot if i pass but until now it was not fulfilled even a little. I feel like they were ego and don't wanna see I'm happy. Im in my holiday after graduating so i asked them if i can hang out with my friends. For this past 4 months of holiday i only went out twice and they already were nagging about how frequent i left the house since the gap was only a month even though im always at home 24/7. They promised me to bring me out for holiday as a reward but now they are always giving excuses to not fulfill their promise. My friends are always questioning why my parents behave like that. Like, my friends result were under me in our school but they got what they have dreamt. They're telling me my parents are controlling my life and forget about my own emotions. They also are always comparing their life when they were a kid but i read that it was not good for parents to compare with a different generation and i agree to that because it hurts me everytime they did that. Not to mention, i also have a problem in communicating with my parents. They are always mad at me even if it was a small matter. Once i forgot to turn on the switch of a rice cooker and they were already yelling at me. My dad is a strict man and always scold me and my siblings and my mom is always listening to my dad. I feel like i have lost my own freedom and lack of love from them. Each and everytime i wanna be clingy when i got sick but then i ended up being scold by them because they thought I didn't take care of myself well. Sometimes i feel like i wanna run away from the house and live by my own but i know its wrong. I'm only hoping that one day they could understand me more and learn something about child psychology. Even me, i wanna fix myself and try to be a better child . This can be achieved by your help. Please help me in this. Your effort will be sincerely appreciated by me. Thanks.

yeah! the same thing happenns to me all the time. they dont understand about how we feel and they make me feel stupid. i cant really talk back much but its really annoying. i had a class test when i had covid. i had 100 grade fever, cough, headake and drowsy eyes. i wrote the class thest anyway. i scored bad in the test(its not a important test anyways) and they say that i cant study at all. when i say that i was not well that day, they say that i am giving excuses. today, all limits were crossed. honestly i study 12 hrs a day for my board exams and i have hardly any time to myself, and they say i do nothing but play and time pass. its really f*****g annoying... please tell me what i can do. Thanks!

I was getting ready to paint a small sunset on a small part of my wall, because I am going g crazy looking at my four white walls every day. anyways, as I was about to start psi ring my mom walks into.My room and asks 'what are you doing?' she asked and looked at me, like I was Cali g, or doing drugs. (I would never do that. I have seen first-hand how they can affect a person.) I replied with 'I'm about to paint a small sunset... Why?' She then proceeded to look at me like I had a screw loose, and say 'no psi ring on your walls! And why aren't you in bed? Did I harp on you at all this weekend about doing your homework? Was I a b***h about it?' I replied with a small no, and she said 'then do the one thing I asked, and go to bed. You will have a lot of homework to catch up on next weekend.' And turns and walks out the door. It was 8:45 on a Sunday night, and I am a young teenager. I dont EVER go to bed before ten, on any given night, and when I tell her my odors natural melatonin doesn't release till about 10:55-11:15 at nigh, she says this every time I tell her. 'that's not scientifically what your body does. Your just looking for an excuse to stay up. Now go to bed.' I have struggled with my mental health for several years now, and have been struggling with my anger management. she says it is getting better, but to me it.feels like a lot of water rapidly boiling, and about to boil over at any given moment. I need help. What should I do? My mom acts like everything I say is scientifically inaccurate and I'm a pathological liar, and sees everything I do and say that is wrong but completely overlooks the fact that my six year old brother lies about everything, and she overlooks the fact that he leaves scratches and scrapes on my arms and legs from repeated squeezing of my arms and legs. He has nails so it is worse and whenever I bring this up to her she says to stop antagonizing him. I STAY IN MY ROOM ALL DAY! I ONLY COME OUT TO EAT OR GO TO THE BATHROOM! I HAVE THREE FRIGGIN WATER BOTTLES IN THERE THAT I FILL UP EVERY NIGHT AFTER DINNER FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! I also only ever go out of my room for school, but that is a given... I feel like I am going to explode bigger than a ten foot tall and wide stack of dynamite. What do I do to help contain my anger? I have tried everything but nothing works. I feel like I am breaking in half.