Okay. So I am REALLY panicking at the moment. And very worried to the point I'm in tears!!
My last period= 2nd July 2011 - 7th July.
Had sex, protected, on 7th when it stopped and nothing came out. Blood was on condom but was not ripped.
On the 10th, my boyfriend and I had sex but for the first few minutes, unprotected. He stopped, put a condom on and carried on.
After that I went to visit my cousins between 23rd July-27th. During that time from 23rd-26th I had a brown, discharge I guess you would call it, smeared on my pants. I wiped and sure enough, same brown discharge was on the tissue. And from then to the 26th, same brown stuff.
At this point I was getting really worried as I heard of spotting but never understood what that was or what it looked like. But nonetheless I was worried. 31st July - Protected sex.
And now my period was meant to be due around 7th August. It is now the 15th.
I also found out a relative of mine is pregnant! That really freaked me out! And I am freaking out at the moment! Im even in tears 'coz I am so scared that I could be pregnant just from that one moment on unprotected sex on the 10th. But I also read about pre-cum and that it does not have sperms in it, unless there was some from previous ejaculation. Is this true!?
I am having belly aches/cramps. My eating habits seems the way they usually are. Breasts aren't sore. Did have few headaches.
During visiting my cousins, I was out in the sea and it was late and I caught some kind of cold.
Sooo basically Im thinking....
- I could be pregnant.
- I am so emotionally upset and worried causing me to stress out that is delaying my period or even stopping it.
- My sleeping times are completely thrashed. I lately been sleeping from 4-5am til 1-3pm.
- My diet isn't exactly healthy. Lately been eating friend and drinking juice and diet coke. Rarely eat fruit or drink water.
- Not enough exercise.
- My cold is affecting it.
I've talked to my boyfriend about it. He said he absolutely doubts that I am pregnant. And I've always believed him 'coz he's quite good with things like that. Said the same things before previously and my period always has come.
I just want someone to explain to me about all this. 'Coz I am not sure whether I am getting so worked up Im looking at my normal lifestyle in a more exaggerated way like "Maybe Im eating more" "Belly aches and cramps" "Bloated"
Please, please help :(
OK. FIRST, IF HE DIDNT COME IN I THINK YOU SHOULDNT WORRY. BUT THEN AGAIN YOU SAY THAT YOU GUYS HAD UNPROTECTED SEX FOR A LITTLE WHILE. IT TAKES A SECOND FOR YOU TO GET PREGNANT. IT IS TRUE THAT THERE IS NO SPERM IN PRECUM UNLESS HE DIDNT TOOK A SHOWER AFTER THE LAST TIME HE CAME. MY BOYFRIEND AND I BEEN HAVING SEX FOR 2 YEARS AND 3 MONTHS WITHOUT A COMNDOM AND IM STILL NOT PREGNANT :) OF COURSE HE PULLS OUT. BUT THE PRECUM NEVER GOT ME PREGNANT SO IM PRETTY SURE THERE IS NO SPERM IN THE PRECUM UNLESS I CAN'T GET PREGNANT AND I DONT THINK THAT'S THE CASE HERE. THE BROWN DISCHARGE COULD BE A MISCARRIAGE. SO WHAT I WOULD RECCOMEND YOU TPO DO IS GO GET YOU A PREGNANCY TEST AND IF ITS POSSITIVE GO TO THE DOCTOR BECAUSE BROWN DISCHARGE IS NOT A GOOD SIGN AT ALL. IF IN THE BEGGINING IS A LITTLE BIT BUT THEN A LOT OF BROWN DISCHARGE COMING OUT THAT IS A SURE MISCARRIAGE. BUT IF IT'S JUST A LITTLE IT COULD BE A SIGN THAT YOUR PERIOD IS ABOYUT TO COME. SO IT AL DEPENDS. GOOD LUCK :)
AND BY THE WAY ALL THOSE ARE PREGNANCY SYMPTOMS SO YOU JUST MIGHT BE PREGNANT. WHO KNOWS???
The brown discharge could possible be just dried blood, I've had that before