Okay, so lately I've been messing around with this guy. We haven't had sex or anything because I haven't let him. But I have performed oral sex on him and vice versa, also he fingers me too. Last time we did anything was 3 or 4 days ago, and he fingered me really hard. Nothing hurt the day after, but after that, it's been hurting since. My vagina (around my opening) is really sore and it feels really uncomfortable when I walk or even sit. Yesterday, when I was going to the bathroom, I noticed that there was some raised skin around my anus. I feel like it could be a rash (like diaper rash type maybe). I'm worried that it could be something else, but I have no idea what that could be be. Should I be worried? Is it normal for it to hurt? If not, how do I get it to stop hurting?
I think it is because that guy fingered you too hard. It happened to me a few times before too and it was usually when the guy was being rough. Or you could've been a bit dry and caused irritation.
Eeeewwwwe. His finger r probably not washed!!
Steph, It might be just a bit of irritation. Leave for a few days and make sure not to touch anything. Let it heal and keep the area clean. If he gave you anything from the oral sex, it's probably too early to know. I'd bet on irritation. If something like this happens again, make sure you're both checked out for STI's, and make sure he doesn't have anything like a cold sore on his mouth or a wart on his fingers. I know it sounds gross, but if he gives you oral sex with a cold sore on his mouth, you could end up with herpes- which never goes away. And if he has warts on his fingers you could get genital warts. The strains of virus are so similar. And those are just to name a few. Be careful. X
full blown sex is the answer!