i have been sexually active for nearly 8 years. for the last few years almost everytime i have sex it hurts for at least a full day or two after wards. also, immediately after my boyfriend pulls out and i go to clean up there is usually a little blood at the back of the opening and it's the most painful there. we have tried numerous forms of lube and going slow and everything and nothing seems to work. i ALWAYS have great orgasms and usually have them really soon after starting anything, so that part is great!
it just hurts so much afterwards and sometimes for a few days i am achey nd swollen. it's very frustrating because it totally ruins my mood when i know what we do will be painful later. it makes me not want to even do anything at all, even if it does not involve penitration. i actually wonder something if my hymen is still there? who knows. :-(
it just hurts so much afterwards and sometimes for a few days i am achey nd swollen. it's very frustrating because it totally ruins my mood when i know what we do will be painful later. it makes me not want to even do anything at all, even if it does not involve penitration. i actually wonder something if my hymen is still there? who knows. :-(
I believe that there is something going on with your health and it needs to be checked right away. If you are experiencing that much pain, it usually means that you caught some bacteria, fungi or some other type of disease. tight vagina and painful sex can definitely be a sign of some bacterial infection. It is not normal that you are in that big pain, maybe you are going through some hormonal changes as well, who can tell. No one but your doctor indeed. I never felt that kind of pain and my vagina is tight naturally. But I never had problems like that.
Hiya,
I can only suggest seeing your doctor because this doesn't seem right at all, you should not be experiencing so much pain!
I can only suggest seeing your doctor because this doesn't seem right at all, you should not be experiencing so much pain!
That's crazy because other than the bleeding that sounds just like my situation.
I come really fast most of the time. I have really strong orgasms and sex is very pleasurable but I don't want to do it again for a day or two afterwards. I also have no sex drive like I don't get "turned on" or really into sex until right before we do it or if I can't sleep.
Also, my husband and I have been having sex for ten plus years and he still can't find "it" without me helping him. He never slides right in, he has to ease in slowly. I think its because I tore with our kids and had to be sewn back up...
I come really fast most of the time. I have really strong orgasms and sex is very pleasurable but I don't want to do it again for a day or two afterwards. I also have no sex drive like I don't get "turned on" or really into sex until right before we do it or if I can't sleep.
Also, my husband and I have been having sex for ten plus years and he still can't find "it" without me helping him. He never slides right in, he has to ease in slowly. I think its because I tore with our kids and had to be sewn back up...
I have a simular problem.
My special someones can never find my opening. I'm actually imbarrased about it most of the time. If the man happens to be of large proportion then I don't look forward to the sex at all. I have to use a lot of lube for him to be able to slide in, and even then it hurts really bad. I always bleed, it's never much, but I do.
My special someones can never find my opening. I'm actually imbarrased about it most of the time. If the man happens to be of large proportion then I don't look forward to the sex at all. I have to use a lot of lube for him to be able to slide in, and even then it hurts really bad. I always bleed, it's never much, but I do.
I know exactly what you mean i am the same way. I dread having sex no matter how much i want to. It is very painful. I have a tilted uterus and my doctor told me that is why it was painful but it wasnt always that painful. Best of luck to all of you i know how bad the pain is.
I'm a small guy! and from reading this maybe there is hope fpr me after all??
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Did you ever find out what was wrong?
I have the exact same problem, great during, the pain and bit of blood afterwords, and soreness for a few days after and it happens every time no matter what we do.
I have the exact same problem, great during, the pain and bit of blood afterwords, and soreness for a few days after and it happens every time no matter what we do.
something kindda similar happens to me. I had about 4 partners in my life and none of them hurt me. Not even my fisrt time hurt. I actually was kindda disapointed in the fact that all of them were pretty small and quick. Now I have a boyfriend Ive benn with him for 10 months and we have been active for about 8. He is pretty large. not long but wide and it hurts like hell. it still hurts. believe me he turns me on and Im wet I do not need any lub. How do I make it stop hurting? Ive tried diffrent positions as well.
i have the same situation. My husbands penis isn't super large or any thing, but its just very sore even when starting slowly and i can't stand the pain for more that a few minute which is really frustrating because i get very turned on. we have pretty much converted to having anal sex exclusively now which for me gives intense orgasms and i'm lucky that my husband like doing it this way too.
Did you ever find out was wrong ? Idont bleed but I am too always tight no matter how much sex I have .
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Maybe everyone here can confirm or reply to my issue: I seem to have the same problem. My vaginal opening is not visible. When i am flat on my back, you cannot see it. I need to be bent on my knees to get a look at it. Is this normal? I have sex and it's difficult for my partner to find.
Hi when you say your flat on you back I take it you mean with your legs are straight out and wide apart?