Hi i am 45 yr old male and married 22 yrs. Lately (18 months ir so) my wife has no interest in sex. I am getting really frustrated, lying here beside her now having been turned down yet again. Help me please.
Hi,
You'll need to find out why she doesn't want to have sex. Is it causing her pain? Is she embarrassed about her body? Is she tired from working? How about you? Have you let yourself go? Think about all the factors.
A counselor might help.
Good luck.
Start watching some porn you will get a great hard on . Then tell her that you need some pleasure and porn is the answer would she like to watch as well. Worth a try ?