ive just noticed that im not female and i am stupid enough to post this on the womens health part of the forum sorry dont know how to move it :S
This is kindof a strange post i guess but i have been experiencing problems most of my life and i think they may be getting worse and im afraid that they will keep getting worse.
firstly i am only 17 so "all my life" isnt all that long (by the way this post will be long but please dont be put off by that what i write i believe will be 100% necesary)
about 3-4 years ago i started getting minor neasea but thought nothing of it. and it was just from really simple things such as watching people eat or seeing people spiting and stuff. but for the last year i now get neasea every morning and every 4th occasion i feel dizzy and hot. and when i go to college i feel really sick there too up untill about 1pm where i feel normall and can eat anything i want and could probably even watch someone been sick without feeling sick myself.
now that doesnt seem like a bad problem at all reading that does it?
but my main worry is that i believe it could be conected to a mental illness of some sort. i think this because sometimes i get really sad ( i wont use the word depressed cos im not sure how to define that exactly) and when i mean sad about 5 mins ago before i wrote this i was experiencing really bad neasua for about 2 hours and throughout that i was crying because i was thinking about how ****** up my life was socially. because all my life since primary school ive been bullied which you may have no understanding about how bad it is bieng bullied for 10-14 years and i seem to overexpress my feelings cos even if someone just says "what are you looking at" in a slightly less than friendly way i dont just do what my mates would do (which is just say "nowt, go away" or summet id just try to look away and try my VERY hardest not to cry cos i get a sudden rush of feelings all over my body and i become really scared and a little paranoid. that has affected my life badly cos even the other day i was on the bus with one of my friends sat at the back and i was talking to him constantly even load so that other people on the bus could hear but i didnt care, but then about 10 minutes later someone else my age got on and sat quite close to me and he knew my friend but when from then they would talk and the other guy had no problem with me cos he was trying to talk to me but i felt really uncomfortable and scared and for the rest of the journey i just looked out the window wishing id be home safe or summet and away from everybody. i also feel like that when im talking to teachers one on one with no one else around, im not so bad at this at college cos they are more like suport and friends than teachers but at school when i had to see someone sometimes id just cry in their face and this was at 16 years old! i used to be petrified to go to school just because there was a small chance that someone would say something nasty to me or harras me, i sometimes get that feeling now too.
whats really strange about all this is i can sometimes be happier than everybody else and not care who im talking to even in person, cos right now even as i express all my feelings on this forum i am actually quite happy and feel like laughing for some reason lol. other than what i feel sad about too though i never had a problem with drugs or alcohol, i mean i occasionly sip a lager every week or two but i have only ever gotten drunk once in my life (and for some adults who may not understand what age you get drunk at its normally 14-15-16 not been funny just want a better idea) also i have never even tried a cigarete so i dont even know what they taste like or anything because ive always had a strong opinion about drugs.. basicaly i HATE them all the do is ruin peoples lives.
i would really really apreciate an answer to this however helpful because i am truly too scared to ask a doctor about this especialy knowing i could just cry in his face or ask to leave half way though cos of neasea.
also i dont want to ask my friends or familt because im pretty sure my friends wouldnt take me seriosly and just laugh cos i act quite hapily with them even though i may feel badly and i feel real uncomfortable taling to my parents evn though they love me very much i just dont want them worrying that i have a troubled life or anyhting. also which i forgot to mention along with neasea i get really tired for no reason not normally at college but when i get home al just not want to do anything but sleep and if i try to resist al prob just knock out on my com chair lol
thanks. dont think ive missed anything :-)
This is kindof a strange post i guess but i have been experiencing problems most of my life and i think they may be getting worse and im afraid that they will keep getting worse.
firstly i am only 17 so "all my life" isnt all that long (by the way this post will be long but please dont be put off by that what i write i believe will be 100% necesary)
about 3-4 years ago i started getting minor neasea but thought nothing of it. and it was just from really simple things such as watching people eat or seeing people spiting and stuff. but for the last year i now get neasea every morning and every 4th occasion i feel dizzy and hot. and when i go to college i feel really sick there too up untill about 1pm where i feel normall and can eat anything i want and could probably even watch someone been sick without feeling sick myself.
now that doesnt seem like a bad problem at all reading that does it?
but my main worry is that i believe it could be conected to a mental illness of some sort. i think this because sometimes i get really sad ( i wont use the word depressed cos im not sure how to define that exactly) and when i mean sad about 5 mins ago before i wrote this i was experiencing really bad neasua for about 2 hours and throughout that i was crying because i was thinking about how ****** up my life was socially. because all my life since primary school ive been bullied which you may have no understanding about how bad it is bieng bullied for 10-14 years and i seem to overexpress my feelings cos even if someone just says "what are you looking at" in a slightly less than friendly way i dont just do what my mates would do (which is just say "nowt, go away" or summet id just try to look away and try my VERY hardest not to cry cos i get a sudden rush of feelings all over my body and i become really scared and a little paranoid. that has affected my life badly cos even the other day i was on the bus with one of my friends sat at the back and i was talking to him constantly even load so that other people on the bus could hear but i didnt care, but then about 10 minutes later someone else my age got on and sat quite close to me and he knew my friend but when from then they would talk and the other guy had no problem with me cos he was trying to talk to me but i felt really uncomfortable and scared and for the rest of the journey i just looked out the window wishing id be home safe or summet and away from everybody. i also feel like that when im talking to teachers one on one with no one else around, im not so bad at this at college cos they are more like suport and friends than teachers but at school when i had to see someone sometimes id just cry in their face and this was at 16 years old! i used to be petrified to go to school just because there was a small chance that someone would say something nasty to me or harras me, i sometimes get that feeling now too.
whats really strange about all this is i can sometimes be happier than everybody else and not care who im talking to even in person, cos right now even as i express all my feelings on this forum i am actually quite happy and feel like laughing for some reason lol. other than what i feel sad about too though i never had a problem with drugs or alcohol, i mean i occasionly sip a lager every week or two but i have only ever gotten drunk once in my life (and for some adults who may not understand what age you get drunk at its normally 14-15-16 not been funny just want a better idea) also i have never even tried a cigarete so i dont even know what they taste like or anything because ive always had a strong opinion about drugs.. basicaly i HATE them all the do is ruin peoples lives.
i would really really apreciate an answer to this however helpful because i am truly too scared to ask a doctor about this especialy knowing i could just cry in his face or ask to leave half way though cos of neasea.
also i dont want to ask my friends or familt because im pretty sure my friends wouldnt take me seriosly and just laugh cos i act quite hapily with them even though i may feel badly and i feel real uncomfortable taling to my parents evn though they love me very much i just dont want them worrying that i have a troubled life or anyhting. also which i forgot to mention along with neasea i get really tired for no reason not normally at college but when i get home al just not want to do anything but sleep and if i try to resist al prob just knock out on my com chair lol
thanks. dont think ive missed anything :-)
meh im a girl but sounds alot like me, im 15 :-( i havent really gotten bullied much or get nausua but i get really anxious around people i dont know and scared also. i have never had alot of friends or very close ones like most ppl do which makes my life alot harder for me it seems like. im always very shy and scared to speak alot espically around alot of people. I also have deep depression and i used to get migrane headaches alot. iv been to the doctor and they said i probally have social anxiety which dosent help me much cuz i still have this problem.....they gave me some medicane for my depression which helps a lil i think but not to much, i still have the social anxiety. they also said i should try talking to a therapist which i do but i dont think its helping me alot either...
sorry i wasnt able to help u alot but i just wanted to tell u that u arent the only one with this problem, i know it makes me feel a lil better to know that atleast. well i really hope ur able to find help some way, u could atleast try a therapist maybe......it dosent help me but that dosent mean it wont help u. good luck
sorry i wasnt able to help u alot but i just wanted to tell u that u arent the only one with this problem, i know it makes me feel a lil better to know that atleast. well i really hope ur able to find help some way, u could atleast try a therapist maybe......it dosent help me but that dosent mean it wont help u. good luck
im always having a feeling of emptiness inside of me, as if i get scared to just do anything, i start to feel scared and get panicked and feel as though life is going to fast, and im falling back...im always regretting and i cannot stop regretting, im always in a feeling of fear, and always day dreaming, i get sick sometimes, and cant eat, my heart starts to pound faster and i sometimes get so terrified that i feel as if im going to die or something. Its just a feeling of emptiness and feel as though you are lost. I sometimes feel i am alone, and even the easy things i can do, i cant do them for some reason, i feel very tired aswell, and i daydream alot (as mentioned before), its like daydreaming but without the dreams..just blankness in mind and starring at something for a long time...getting tired.
I am very sensitive, and even if people are trying to be friends with me, i would try and reflect what i could have done to make things better, and i feel so down that i didnt do anything about myself...and other people. I have exactly the same feelings like you, maybe different, i don't know, but i have doctors appointment, and also, there was once when i woke up, an incident, when i stretched myself, i started to feel dizzy and there was blackness in my eyes, it got blurry and i felt as if something in my brain or head had been taken out, i felt soooooooooooooooo dizzy and light, i almost felt as though im going to faint....and i had to quickly close my eyes with my hands and kneel my head on my bed to stop the dizzyness from happening!! 8-| ...and i also sometimes feel happier then others..sometimes i get so sensitive and emotional i start to cry inside of myself, and start to think about god ...but then it only lasts for a bit, and then fear always comes into me...its as if theres something stopping me from doing the things...and stopping me to be my normal self.... its so annoying......
I get more depressed when i see people working their asses of for exams and coursework, and for myself, i dont have any interest in my work, my mind doesn't put any effort into doing the work... as some of my friends have gone university, and some working, i always feel as though everything is over...its always my willpower... i will always try to find a character forr myself, for example...try to take interest in rap music etc, its as if...my mind is always changing... i'm not sure if i am allowed to talk to you about this, but i had often masturbated since a young age, and since then, i often feel tired and exhausted, i feel hot and sweaty and sometimes i would find it hard to walk...as my legs feel stiff and locked... It may be a lack of chemicals in the brain or another disorder...i have anyway since then never masturbated in my life...and i always control myself...hopefully its time to take another step in this and solve the problem once and for all...
I am very sensitive, and even if people are trying to be friends with me, i would try and reflect what i could have done to make things better, and i feel so down that i didnt do anything about myself...and other people. I have exactly the same feelings like you, maybe different, i don't know, but i have doctors appointment, and also, there was once when i woke up, an incident, when i stretched myself, i started to feel dizzy and there was blackness in my eyes, it got blurry and i felt as if something in my brain or head had been taken out, i felt soooooooooooooooo dizzy and light, i almost felt as though im going to faint....and i had to quickly close my eyes with my hands and kneel my head on my bed to stop the dizzyness from happening!! 8-| ...and i also sometimes feel happier then others..sometimes i get so sensitive and emotional i start to cry inside of myself, and start to think about god ...but then it only lasts for a bit, and then fear always comes into me...its as if theres something stopping me from doing the things...and stopping me to be my normal self.... its so annoying......
I get more depressed when i see people working their asses of for exams and coursework, and for myself, i dont have any interest in my work, my mind doesn't put any effort into doing the work... as some of my friends have gone university, and some working, i always feel as though everything is over...its always my willpower... i will always try to find a character forr myself, for example...try to take interest in rap music etc, its as if...my mind is always changing... i'm not sure if i am allowed to talk to you about this, but i had often masturbated since a young age, and since then, i often feel tired and exhausted, i feel hot and sweaty and sometimes i would find it hard to walk...as my legs feel stiff and locked... It may be a lack of chemicals in the brain or another disorder...i have anyway since then never masturbated in my life...and i always control myself...hopefully its time to take another step in this and solve the problem once and for all...
I dont know whats the matter..when i get anxious i feel i m in pain,i dont want to eat anything and when i go to college i feel sad.i dont have many friends.i just want to ask if anxiety is an illness and if a doctor can help..
Anxiety is not a mental illness and it can be treated look up charles linden.
No Foul Language Young Man!!!!!!!!!