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hey there...
well my problem is..i reallly feel like having sex. I know i'm not going ot because im nearly 14-still to young but i want pleasure. I masterbate nearly every night :S but it takes a little longer ot get pleasure then it used to. I rub my self and everything but i have used my finger a few times...has any1 got any other options--what else can i use. I feel the urge for it once a day-is that normal? any help would be great
iv had the same problem except im a dude and i use to hav Lots of porn on my computer but my mum Found out and now wanking has gotten boring %-)
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Sure it's normal to feel that way when your 13, your hormones are bouncing off the roof!
I started masturbating once a day when I was 9! Now 7 years later me and my girlfriend are 16 and we have sex nearly everytime we see each other
If you want pleasure then you have to wait, space out your masturbation say once or twice a week and you'll cum faster and harder than before I know myself how frustrating the wait can be but it's well worth it and too much masturbation is bad is bad for anybody
The sex part you should leave off for another couple of years at least, guy will start to think your easy and will all want a go so instead just have fun with yourself, explore your body, find your G-spot that'll keep you occupied for till you find the right guy :-)
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yeah masturbation is fun. way to determine for urself ur not ready but want the fun.

*(yes i'm a guy)*

tips:
water--shower--jet stream
vibrator/ lube

just for starters..


lol there is a reason kids always looks suspeciaous in public pulls when they frequent that "special corner" with the power jet.
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use lotion or some other lubricant and it'll make things smoother and more sensual

be careful what u use though, it like instrument oil (if you're in band) because ingesting certain things can kill you or poison you (but lotion won't as long as it is just regular lotion).
*i keep a small bottle under my bed*

yeah, i'm a guy
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i think u should go ahead and have sex... why not no big deal just make shure protection is involved... because if u are having urges than that may be all u have left... i have the same feelings as a 14 yr old it is only natural
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wtf are you serious dude?
that is definitely the wrong way to go. having sex will get you into a deep pile of sh*t you will probably never get out of.
it could ruin your future, and you will have emotional problems for the rest of your teenage years and maybe farther.
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I beg you! Please do not choose to have sex!
I'm all for those oh-so-awsome urges, but that can really make a mess of your life!
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OK! Now, there are some people on this website that have some sense so take our advice because we have gone through this or are going through this. First, it is natural to masturbate as often as you like. you can get off to porn. what ever your pick is. Second, Dont have sex now because it could scar you for life. However, I dont think so. just, dont do it and when you do USE A CONDOM! THEY GIVE THEM AWAY. you can always use an object as an alternative to your finger and I agree with anonymous92. lotion works. So does hair conditioner.

Ah screw it GOOD LUCK!
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my girlfriend uses one of those electric toothbrushes against her clit
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