Hello. I'm 20 year old female and I think I have developed some kind of health problem. You see, I have started masturbating when I was 17 and I was doing it almost two years.
In those two years I didn’t have a singe orgasm. Then I get involved with one guy and slept with him for about a year.
It was beautiful and I had orgasm almost every time. Now, I'm single again and I started again with masturbating. But the problem is the same like it was before- no orgasm. What should I do? Have I developed some kind of problem or I have never really learned to masturbate?
Hello. I'm 21 year old and I think I had almost the same problem. You see, I was also started masturbating very early and I was sure I have developed some kind of health problem because of it.
But I was wrong. Techniques for masturbation vary greatly from person to person but one thing is the same-you must understand that masturbation isn’t some mechanic action. You must relax, keep your eyes closed and try to enjoy- not just trying reaching an orgasm as quick as you can.
Try changing your body position daily because it will spicy a bit this experience. I don’t know have you tried but I suggest you to jerk off in the shower, taking full advantage of the warm water, the soap or shampoo, and the tub jets. It’s great.