Hi,
I have been with my current girlfriend now for around 6 months and our problem lies in the bedroom. Before I met her I had been with quite my share of women and had some great experiences and (without an ego) plenty of good reviews but I can not seem to get my new girl there. She mentioned when we first got together that she has had troubles in this department but i thought it wouldn't matter to me because of my past experiences. I can tell when we're having sex that shes not really enjoying herself with the way she acts (not lots of confidence?) and now it is really starting to affect ME mentally and physically. I have started to lose some confidence, to the point that I don't really want to try anymore...
Everything else is our relationship is really good. This is my longest relationship and we have some really happy moments together.
Thoughts would be appreciated...
I have been with my current girlfriend now for around 6 months and our problem lies in the bedroom. Before I met her I had been with quite my share of women and had some great experiences and (without an ego) plenty of good reviews but I can not seem to get my new girl there. She mentioned when we first got together that she has had troubles in this department but i thought it wouldn't matter to me because of my past experiences. I can tell when we're having sex that shes not really enjoying herself with the way she acts (not lots of confidence?) and now it is really starting to affect ME mentally and physically. I have started to lose some confidence, to the point that I don't really want to try anymore...
Everything else is our relationship is really good. This is my longest relationship and we have some really happy moments together.
Thoughts would be appreciated...
have you tried talking to her about it?
she said she had problems in that department so its probably got nothing to do with your performance
when you said that you didnt really want to keep going anymore were you talking about sex or your relationship?
because if you were talking about your relationship, if everything else is going well, dont break it off just coz of a not so hot sex life
sex isnt the only aspect in a relationship
good luck
she said she had problems in that department so its probably got nothing to do with your performance
when you said that you didnt really want to keep going anymore were you talking about sex or your relationship?
because if you were talking about your relationship, if everything else is going well, dont break it off just coz of a not so hot sex life
sex isnt the only aspect in a relationship
good luck