Nipples sore/tender possibly from stress or pregnant??;

I have to say I'm 16 and I've been having sex since I was 14. I've only recently just stopped using protection. And I just found this site. What's worse is I posted about the same situation. And reading this, shows me that there is no direct answer online. Only a matter of opinions. Nobody knows until they go find out themselves. Whether you go take a pregnancy test or, go to the doctor. I can't speak from experience much. But I have been going through the same thing. Only difference is my chances are greater of being pregnant because I've done it for so long. Don't get me wrong, I've had birth control. But my mom just recently stopped getting my pills. And my period is going to start soon too! I dunno. If you find out could you like, Message me?


About the Adults or the ignorant people who believe kids don't have sex at young ages, are too stubborn to believe it. Chances are, your kids or future kids might have sex one day. And if you have no, or plan on not having any, well then your more stubborn then a mule. When you live here, in AMERICA, it's to be expected. Alot of teens are parents, that doesn't mean anything. My mom was a teen when she had me. She's doing great, even though I'm not turning out right. But you know what, she's done the best she can. And I'm sure adults want to believe that kids are innocent, but this has been going on for years. I mean way back in the day....for example...romeo and juliet.....I mean it's a fake story, but it's happened even in the past too. Don't think that all kids are never gonna try it or ever want to. It happens. And usually it's because of trying it to fit in. I never did it for that. I had other reason...But that is another story....

I am a 43 year old woman and I don't think that a 24 year old's brain has fully developed either. I realized that the more I age the more I realize I really don't have the answers. 15 year olds can fall in love. And it can be very real. Most judge based on their own experiences. I was 15 and in love I regret never having sex with him, he later moved to a different country with his parents. I think of him to this day. As I mature I realize you have to let people live the life that is right for them without judgement. You'l be disappointed if you don't/ What is great for one person isn't always great for someone else. My mother still tries to tell me how she thinks I should live, I am 43. She still needs to be a mother.
I am a president of a company own a beautiful home, beautiful husband etc..
But you see I don't want to live like her. SHe is getting confused what is good for her must be great for me. Some people have to try and tell you how to live. Look at yourself. Are you on the right track for you, that is what you have to look at and be concerned with.

Reading this breaks my heart. We are so caught up with being politically correct and saving peoples' feelings and rights and that history. I am fully aware that I am by no means responding to the initial questions posed in this forum. Apart from the spiritual perspective of having sex outside of the confines of marriage - as a teenager do you not think your focus should be making something of your mind?

Some one posted that teens have been having sex for a long time now and implied that this is actually OK. IT IS NOT! Little girls, get a grip of yourself! If you think life is about partying and sex and hedonism then you are mistaken and grossly so.

When will we start to think before we act? Its time to close your legs and open your mind - is there no home work due tomorrow? Sheesh!

ok if i know any thing its what iam talking about.i was raped when i was 16.and so i never got the first chance i should of had.but i had a bf i loved and so i had sex with him but it ended.so i found another bf he was nice sweet and stuff but i told him i dont want to do any thing.he sead ok thats fine.we has sex when i was 18.we are together now.we also have a baby girl that is 8 months old.thank god i was in my last year of high school and i graduated at 5 months pregnant.

but u also got to remember if the boy loves you he will wait tell you are of age.and if he trys to talk you in to it tell him he is only thinking with his head in his pance and need to remember he has a hand and remember what it is for.

its not cool to be a parent of a young age.its hard.they also dont stay little for long.i know i could not be the good mother i am with out my husbend with me.he helps so much.do your selfs a faver and do not get pregnant at the tender age of 15 16 or 17 you also might whant to get a house and stuff befor geting a baby.+ baby are not cheap!!

but if you want to have sex go ahead but please use protection and if you dont also keep in mind do u want that boy you are with, do you want him to be your babys dad?the one that is 15 dont have a job or a house?so enjoy your teenage years while you can cuse you are just a few years a way from bills job hard times and kids

Thank you for sharing that.. I am 18 years old and still a virgin. When I graduated I probably knew about 15 girls in my school that were pregnant or already had babies, like yourself. I'm just glad to know that there are other people out there that wait to have sex. I mean, if others had sex because they were ready for it, then kudos to you all. But I haven't found the right guy yet, and I don't want to loose it to just ANYBODY. Its harder now to keep my virginity because well, I'm not ignorant, sex seems like a lot of fun, but I'm willing to wait for that right person, even if it isn't when I'm married. But thank you again for sharing that.

Hola,
my nipples feel tender also me and my boyfriend never use a rubber and my nipples never felt this way...could someone tell me whats going on....

I'm 18, and not graduated from high school. I went through an abusive childhood from my dad and I recently left my family. I made the choice not to have sex because I knew that I wasn't able to support a child. I still wonder if I am, though I know my fiance and I have a good support system. My fiance is 23 and has a 2 almost 3 year old little girl. I didn't find the right person to loose my virginity to for a really long time. People would come up to me saying that I'm a liar and I've had sex with every other guy that walked up to me. I think people make their own choices and need to stand by the choices they make; if it's a mistake, then learn the lesson. Regretting things just puts you down and lowers your self esteem.

To the original post, you could just be having hormonal changes. It's a big problem among teenagers. If you are not having any other symptoms, you are probably not pregnant. There is always that possibility though. I would wait till your next period and determine if it's late or normal. I have unprotected sex as well. I currently have extremely painful cramps and my breasts have been sore/tender for about a week or so. My breasts have also grown larger. I'm not sure as to what that means. I started spotting yesterday. I'm just sitting and waiting like you are. Patience comes and goes. Just wait and see what happens with your body. Notice the changes and go from there. :-P

Hi MissLissa, thank you for posting on your experiences and I think that it's pretty helpful. I think that even if you have one or two symptoms of a pregnancy though that you should definitely still try a pregnancy test just to rule it out. By now, you should definitely know if you're pregnant. To the original post, have you taken an HPT yet?

This is ridiculous advice. There are no 15 year olds ready to have sex. Heres the sad truth, all these kids are getting out and having sex because we are such a liberal nation and "if you think you're old enough, you go for it" is the idea thats running rampant. Yes, you may have the physical attributes that allows you to have sex, but by no means are you prepared to raise a child. You can use all the birth control you want but that's never 100 percent. I know several people who were using birth control that are mommies and daddies now! The fact is, at 15 what kind of job are you going to get? How are you going to support a child? How are you going to finish high school AND support a child? If you actually do any of that, heres whats going to happen, you're going to get federal help, which means that I'm going to pay to raise your child. You're not going to do it on your own... Or, you're going to drop out of school, which is going to mean that once again, you're not going to get a decent job, and I'm going to pay to raise you and your child...

Or, option 3, you're going to get an abortion, and you don't' want to get me started on that... All these girls running around saying, I'm old enough to have sex if I choose, and then run and kill a child when it doesn't work out the way they wanted. AND I PAY FOR IT! Just to be honest, I really feel you need to be married before you start dropping your pants. I don't care if you're 18, 30, or 72. Over the past couple of decades we've opened up to a "as long as you're responsible" BS, and haven't you noticed that over that same period of time, we started having a dramatic rise in divorce, abortion, broken families... Its more common now days for people to get married because they have a baby on the way than it is for people to get married because they love each other. Thats why divorce is on the rise. And all you teenyboppers running around needing to look cool, and don't realize that it just looks slutty, are the reason that abortion and well-fare is on the rise. Keep your pants up, believe me, its much more attractive to find a girl who respects herself, than a trashy girl that's been tapped by all the guys in school...



BTW, I'm 22 and a guy... And I can tell you from my own opinion and from many guys that I know, Girls think that we think its hot that they're sexually open, and yes, most guys will hit it. Its a quick piece, but thats all... We may even "date" for a while, but... You're definitely not a keeper. Why on earth would I or any other guy want used merchandise or damaged goods? lol. Keep your pants up, believe me, its much more attractive to find a girl who respects herself, than a trashy girl that's been tapped by all the guys in school...

Hey there, thanks for your input and we always value your opinion but do bear in mind that a lot of people post here for health advice. I do respect that you feel that way but a lot of people post here with hard decisions to make. It helps not to be as judgmental because you really never know how people get into the position that they do. After all, what if a doctor administered care but only based on his own moral code? that would be a hard world to live in.

Okay, I hope that the girl who first actually posted this mess of a thread...found out if she was pregnant or not. And now for the rest of you people....

Apparetnly everyone is forgetting about...well...HISTORY! People have been having sex for like...ever! How the hell do you think we got here?! And way back in the day...I'm talking like 1400's and even earlier here...people had arranged marriages. Little 13 year old girls were marrying 20 some year old guys and they were expected to lay on their backs and not complain. I really don't see why eveyone thinks it is such a big deal! Sex is sex. And just because you have sex...doesn't mean you're going to pop out a kid 9 months later. Yes, there are diseases out there too but not all of these girls are as dumb as you all seem to think they are. They know that they need to protect themselves and if they chose not to, well then that was there choice now wasn't it. There isn't a thing that you can do about it so suck it up!

I think it is young to be having sex at that age yes, but people do what people do. I can't say a whole lot because I first did it when I was 16...and believe it or not I was in love. And no it wasn't stupid "puppy love" or whatever you want to call it...I loved that boy with all of my heart and I would have done anything for him. We dated for 2 years, got engagged, and then we broke up because we both grew-up and wanted different things in life. He wanted more girls...and I wanted to settle down. But I am 21 now and have learned from that whole experience. I have a new boyfriend now and we live together. We are talking about getting married as well. People always ask me if I regret losing my virginity when I did and I always so no. I was in love and I don't see anything wrong with what I did. My parents even knew about it. They hated it but they tried to not let me see him anymore but they couldn't keep me away from him. And no, that's not all we did. I didn't go over to his house and lay on my back all night like some people think girls do. Not everyone is a w**** thank you very much!

Seriously, people just need to get a good smack in the face and maybe then you will realize what the hell is going on in the world. I bet none of you that oppose and have these god awful rude comments towards these girls, have ever sat down with a teen and actually talked to them. And I mean they talk while you sit there and keep your mouth shut and listen. These young girls having sex isn't the "horrible, awful, disgusting, and horrifying" thing going on here. It is the people who assume that these girls are stupid and don't know what they are getting themselves into that horrible and awful. You really shouldn't assume things...it makes you look like an ass! :-P

I am 19 years old me and my bf have been together for about 8 years now i love him with my hole heart but one day when i was 16 we made the mistake of partying and doin something when i was on period. i wasnt to worried about it, every girl thinks at first that it'll never happen to her, she wont be one of those girls to worry bout teen pregnancy. a month goes by theres hardly any symptoms, my breast were a little sensitive but other then that i was normal. we soon started to realize that my period wasn't coming on its usual schedule, i soon came to find out i was pregnant,. when i first found out i was sooooo happy i was ready for all this and my bf was behind me all the way. well a month after letting this all sink in it finally hit us that we were too young and i didnt know what to do i hated the fact of abortion but the thought of someone else other then me or my bf raising my kid was unbearable. after tears and long talks we finnally went ahead with the abortion. theres not a day that goes by that i dont think of that baby. it tore me up for awhile bc i felt like a horrible person. its not a good feeling at all. i no its too late to turn back now and maybe i did the right thing for the both of us. i wasnt ready financially or mentally. for all you girls that go out there that are young and are sexually active just remember the consequences and you may think it'll be fun and all bout bein happy but once reality hits you and you realize your too young your stuck with the horrible decision of abortion or keeping or adoption and when your so young every option seems horrible so be careful and save your self the pain. give yourself time to enjoy life before you put such a heavy responsibility on yourself.

I'm sorry to hear that you regret your decision and we all renefit from your perspective. I just don't think realize that people think it through and so I'm glad you posted that. What compelled you to do it?

iceq wrote:

GOD ! What kind of people you are who have sex at the age of 15 !! ???

I remember when I was 15 I didn't even know yet that a newborn is created when a Man ejaculates inside a woman... What society and morals enable you to have sex at that age? This is horrible

I was 14 when i first had sex. I've always been a sexual creature, even since i was little. It was a natural thing for me.

I knew my facts. I knew that I could possibly get pregnant if we didn't use a condom. I knew everything about STDs from the nice abstinence only policies at public schools these days. I wasn't naive. I knew what I was doing and I knew the risks.
I knew I had to get on the pill so if something happened, I would still be okay. I was 14, and I knew all of this.

My morals were fine. I was having sex because it felt right. The society I live in has nothing to do with my choices, except in educating me enough to get to a point where I could protect myself.

So, Iceq, what kind of person are you to judge me based on your decisions, your morals, and your society, when there seems to be nothing wrong with my own?


Oh, and a newborn isn't a newborn until he or she is actually newly born. When a man ejaculates inside of a woman, a fetus is created, which may or may not eventually grow into a baby able to become a newborn.

I do have to say that it's not exactly immoral to have sex at a younger age. It's really not a moral decision anyway, and it's dependent on one's culture, so it's not something that is healthy to judge. Thank you for this post! :)