I had a traumatic sex experienxe with this guy and ever since then when I try to have sex with other guys I get close to orgasm then my nerves go crazy and the pressure is not released. This is really painful emotionally I will take any suggestions
Please let us know what the situation was that made you this way. What I'm saying is that we need more information please.
You just need to take your time and relax. If you relax than it will cum a lot easier. You may also need counseling to help you deal with your event. Good luck