hi, in july i was at a party with this guy who i had a small summer crush on. he was 16, and going to a be a junoir in high school. he also had a girlfriend. though its bad to addmitt, we hooked up before this night. he lived in minnasota and his gf was miles away cosidering we were in a small beach town in ri. stupid im aware. anyway one night at a party, we went for a walk alittle not there...and we starting hooking up agian..but this time it was much more intense. he was fingering me, proforming oral sex, and then he asked if i wanted to have sex. i replied do you have a condom? and he said no. so i said no. but his penis ended up down there anyway, though it wasnt in me..i dont think. as stupid as that sounds. because after have sex with my boyfriend it felt NOTHING like that. like when the summer guy was down there it didnt feel in me. and the day after when he texted me saying he cant even explain how sorry he is because he has a girlfriend and what not. and he said it wasnt sex. now this guy is an asswhole, but i really dont think he was that big of one. considering hed talked to me and my friends and stuff all the time and call me. now i dont have any std considering its been like 6 months or something, and i dont have any lumps or bumps. but i still dont know if that was sex, and if it was im so paraniod of hiv. i dont want to end things with my boyfriend right now, i love him so much. and i dont want hurt him. i dont want to hurt my parents if i have hiv. so i was wondering what are the chances of getting hiv if he was 16 year old with a girl friend...and if it is can i still have a relationship and do sexual stuff if i continue to always use a condom.
one more thing, sorry this is so long, i had a yeast infection in like oct. and i think it came back but im not sure..so i treated it agian...and i its pretty much gone away but could it not be a yeast infection if one side of my lips is all red like near my clitoris? or is that another symtom? and that brings me if it is yeast, reoccuring yeast does mean hiv sometimes so yeah im paraniod. pleaseeee help me
one more thing, sorry this is so long, i had a yeast infection in like oct. and i think it came back but im not sure..so i treated it agian...and i its pretty much gone away but could it not be a yeast infection if one side of my lips is all red like near my clitoris? or is that another symtom? and that brings me if it is yeast, reoccuring yeast does mean hiv sometimes so yeah im paraniod. pleaseeee help me
forgot to add if i just call/text him and ask if he does
i also havnt been adnormally sick. i had cold for a like a week but thats fall
i also havnt been adnormally sick. i had cold for a like a week but thats fall
oh my god, im sorry and i forgot one last thing could you get yeast infections from like shaving down there, being fingered alot, maybe it not being wet enough or perhaps condoms?