I just want to know if we're alone out there.
My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. We both began masturbating early (Me when I was six, and he around the same time, probably) and when we first began having sex (about a year ago), we continued to do so (Because of location, we can only see each other once a week). Now, I hear all of the time about how it's healthy for girls and guys to masturbate, and it's common for guys to masturbate and girls to get jealous (or even vice versa), and even read about how it tears married couples apart, but I'm wondering if how many other couples have a similar situation to us:
He did begin to get jealous after awhile, though I never have been, because he wanted it to be something "special, just between us". I can honestly say, however, that 99% of my fantasies are and have been for awhile now, about him. Every now and again I'll have a fantasy of a third person, or an occassional lesbian-fantasy (wiggles eyebrows), but it's almost all him. I've stopped masturbating for him for the past 3 or 4 months now, and he's making efforts to stop, as well (his idea), and has reduced it from 2-3 times a day to 1-2 times a week. And even then, I truly believe him when he says it's about me, as well.
Is there another couple out here that has.. like.. loving situations with masturbation, and not "Yeah, I love my husband, but I fantasize about sleeping with my mailman"? Or are we really that weird?