Hello. I was wondering that someone could help me. I have a boyfriend for almost two years and I have really no complaints. Our sex life is great and whole this time I was on the pill.
Because of bad side effects I stopped with pill and get back to old good condoms. But one problem occurred!
Not only that my boyfriend has problems with his erections but he’s having big problems with orgasming.
He told me that the condoms do not provide him enough pleasure and sensations! What should we do? I know only one thing- going back to the pill is out of the question!
Please help us- our sex life is completely ruined!
I'm 25 year old male and I've had the same problem with my girlfriend. Trust me- I fell into serious depression because I though it is problem that could never be solved. I felt useless and my relationship was seriously disturbed.
Then a good friend gave me some advices. You see, plenty things related to sex are just a habit. It isn’t easy to change anything especially to start using condoms after so many years. But person has the ability to learn to orgasm in new ways but time is crucial.
He could also use water or oil-based lube on both sides of a condom which would help in providing him a simulation of the warm and wet vaginal environment.