i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a little while ago, we were both virgins so it was a mutually nerve-racking experience. the problem is that when we were having sex i couldn't feel a thing, not pleasure or pain when he penetrated and i was wondering if this is normal or something to worry about. i know it can be different to everyone but it's been kind of stressful to us both and we haven't really talked about it since, i worry that i made him feel bad or inadequate. i love him dearly and would hate to have him leave over something so trivial.
im a guy so i dont know how you were suposed to feel exactly, but you should have fel pleasure. if i may ask have you ever pleasured your self? and did you feel pleasure then?
be sure to talk to him about it, sex does change a relationship and he is probably feeling just like you are now so tell him how you feel. tell him what you told us
be sure to talk to him about it, sex does change a relationship and he is probably feeling just like you are now so tell him how you feel. tell him what you told us
thanks Markus,in answer to your question:'if i may ask have you ever pleasured your self? and did you feel pleasure then?'
i have yes and i did,that is why this has become such a confusing situation. i will be sure to talk to him thank you.
i have yes and i did,that is why this has become such a confusing situation. i will be sure to talk to him thank you.