Alright well my girlfriend and i were messing around on Friday and i fingered, she became wet and i took my penis out and was rubbing it on her underwear. She rub my penis and claimed she felt pre *** on it but i didnt feel it or see it whenever i looked down on my penis it was dry so i dont think there was any. We did this off and but there was never any direct penis in the vagina contact. Later that night she began to get worried and she started to claim her side started to hurt and it persisted onto today when she told me she was worried. Is there a chance that she might be pregnant? Does her pain in her side relate to what we did yesterday or is it something completely different? We are both virgins.She says her ovaries are tightening and they are hurting a lot. What do you think might be wrong. I've looked up things about her side and it says Ovulation Pains so i dont know what to think. Is it possible that she might be pregnant and should we get plan b?
If you are going for 'plan b' and get the 'morning after pill' you need to do so quickly. She has to take it within 72 hours.
It seems unlikely she would get pregnant from rubbing your dry penis on her underwear, but you need to give a bit more information about your activity. Where, exactly, did you 'rub' your penis? If it was on her underwear (cotton?) directly on the vaginal orifice, and she was already wet, any pre-cum could find its way through the wet fabric. If that pre-cum contained any sperm (particularly likely if you'd recently had an ejaculation), there is the possibility such (very small, but extremely active) sperm could transfer through, and so into the vagina. It only takes one sperm to fertilise an egg. So there is technically a risk.
Another factor is age. How old are you both? Are her periods regular? How long has she been menstruating? If she is very young, she might not yet be very fertile.
Also, you do not mention when she had her last period to further assess the risk. The risk, however seems, on the face of it, very low, and you will have to decide whether 'low risk' is as good as 'no risk' and take a chance, or whether any risk, however low, is a risk to be dealt with.
Where are you from? Is there a cultural/religious aspect to your concern?
Hope this helps. If you prefer to give more detail privately, please feel free to do so.
also, at one point i did have my penis around her vagina but i know that i didnt ejaculate. i think. do you think that she should take it? and in everything that i have told you is there any way she could be pregnant.