Ok, so I am 19 and have had sex a few times with my girlfriend after losing my virginity lately. I am uncircumcised and occasionally my penis will hurt when inserting into her vagina, however after this short pain, things seem fine and we just continue. Now my foreskin has never been able to go all the way back, however after sex it can go a lot further back so I am guessing the pain is from the foreskin not usually going back so far.
So anyway, last night after having sex I went to use the bathroom and noticed that my foreskin went further back than ever, and on the left side where it would peel back there was blood. I can only assume that is not a good sign, if I pull the skin back now (which is easier than before) there is no blood now.
I also noticed that on the outside of my foreskin there is something which looks like a cut, but there is no scab because that area of my foreskin is typically moist, however I have no idea what that mark is and if it was related to this experience. My penis currently hurts slightly and even more so if I was to pull back my foreskin now.
any advice would be good thanks %-)
So anyway, last night after having sex I went to use the bathroom and noticed that my foreskin went further back than ever, and on the left side where it would peel back there was blood. I can only assume that is not a good sign, if I pull the skin back now (which is easier than before) there is no blood now.
I also noticed that on the outside of my foreskin there is something which looks like a cut, but there is no scab because that area of my foreskin is typically moist, however I have no idea what that mark is and if it was related to this experience. My penis currently hurts slightly and even more so if I was to pull back my foreskin now.
any advice would be good thanks %-)
You may have suffered some minor trauma to your penis during intercourse. This is not uncommon as the act of sexual intercourse can get very intense, especially in a young person. The blood that you saw on your penis most likely came from your girlfriend rather than from yourself. Sexual lubricant and a condom will help make your future experience much safer and more pleasant.
Hmm, I probably should have added, I was using a condom that was lubricated, and the blood was under my foreskin and I could only see it when peeling it back, it was near the back against the head.
When growing up with an uncircumcised penis you need stretch it back so the skin does not rip, you now need to stop having sex (for a bit) and keep the foreskin clean and time to heal or it could get infected.
alright, thanks %-)
Hmm because the cut thing inside my foreskin is usually moist being where it is, it looks like it is having difficulty healing, and where a scab would be on a normal cut would be its all white and stuff. Also I am having trouble keeping urine out of it, as I find myself needing to wash it after every time i go to the bathroom to keep it clean.
It still seems like the cut like wound is taking a while to heal, it keeps getting wet, although I have been trying to keep it dry. Any ideas?
i had this problem but my cut thing is by my penis eye and by my foreskin starting point (thin piece of skin atching head to foreskin) this two hurt and it was bleeding and my gf ought it was her and was caused when i was inside her vagina and i went in deep then had a pain in the head of my penis and tought nothing of it as my gf has only had sex once b4 but hadnt had hymen broke so i tought it was that, she has no IUD and is on the pill and i didnt use protection. can anyone help and tell me wha caused it as it hurt really bad
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You tore your frenulum. No sweat, it happens to many of us. I put toilet paper on mine and rolled my foreskin back over it. That was to keep the open ends of the cut from healing back together. It was longer after that happened several times and now it's no problem at all. My foreskin goes all the way back without pulling a bit. It's really nice now.
You need to moisturize and condition your foreskin so it slides back and forth easily. A penis health creme will help you out immensely. A good creme will contain Vitamins A and E, which will both moisturize your skin and treat the irritation you have developed as well. Just apply this creme once a day and you should be good to go in no time. Hope this helps.
Hello is minor trauma normal my husband is having the same thing ... Please help!!
I don't know if im a bit late to give advice. But I was also never able to fully peel my foreskin back. It's called Phimosis: ''By phimosis the foreskin of a boy or man is so narrow in the end that it cannot be pulled down.
I was treated for it in the hospital, because I feared having intercourse would be painfull, it also stressed my frenulum since my second condition was that the frenulum was very high attached to my foreskin so it could tear by force on my snake. In the operation I took they lowered the frenulum to make it less tight, it's called a frenulotomy operation. You could also circumcice your snake, but it would probally be a unpleasent experience. If your skin is too tight, you can use hormonal creams to make the skin thinner or smoother, For me it didn't really work. It's still a bit narrow but keep having sex and stuff and it will probally become wider, as it did to me. If you get hurt keep your snake at rest and only start feeding it again after a week or so. Best thing is to go to the doctor to let him diagnose and discuss a reliefing operation if possible.
I was treated for it in the hospital, because I feared having intercourse would be painfull, it also stressed my frenulum since my second condition was that the frenulum was very high attached to my foreskin so it could tear by force on my snake. In the operation I took they lowered the frenulum to make it less tight, it's called a frenulotomy operation. You could also circumcice your snake, but it would probally be a unpleasent experience. If your skin is too tight, you can use hormonal creams to make the skin thinner or smoother, For me it didn't really work. It's still a bit narrow but keep having sex and stuff and it will probally become wider, as it did to me. If you get hurt keep your snake at rest and only start feeding it again after a week or so. Best thing is to go to the doctor to let him diagnose and discuss a reliefing operation if possible.
Im 18 years old, I’m uncircumcised, I’ve never had sex, just wondering does it hurt inserting it into a vagina