Hi, My period was 2 weeks late and right now im not even sure that i have it. i have very light bleeding, very light pink, it doesnt show up on my liner, only when i wipe myself. I have had two neg hpt and i have had stabbing pains in my sides which i can only presume is my ovaries? I have always been regular and i have had this light bleeding for 3 days now. it is very abnormal for me and all my dr has said is just wait and see what happens. i am very confused. i have been very moody and i have eben crying alot for no reason lately.
If you've already been to your doctor, then that's one piece of obvious advice out of the way, with one exception: did you mention your stabbing pains in your sides? Discomfort is one thing, but there are conditions that are threatening - without wishing to alarm, exept that 'stabbing pains' is hardly encouraging, is it?
If you mentioned it, and (s)he accepted that as normal, then fine: if you didn't mention it, I might suggest you check it out and clarify. Your body's supposed to be adjusting (if you're pregnant) not having a crisis, so caution is reasonable and appropriate.
And moody and crying for no reason has got to be an indicator, so prepare for the best/worst (depending on your point of view).
The dr's advice may have been accurate, but it sounds like (s)he didn't necessarily point you in the direction of dealing with the possible symptoms, including emotional changes. Waiting doesn't mean doing nothing: waiting can mean applying yourself to matters that you can do something about, like researching options for motherhood, termination, testing, pregnancy (experience of), etc, while you 'wait' for what you can't do anything about.
Then, when your body either declares itself, with undisputed bleeding (negative) or testing positive, you will be better able to take the next steps. Also, be aware - see similar post (bradley) that even if you do eventually experience your 'period' with unmistakeable bleeding, that given the emotional hit you're taking, it may have been a miscarriage, which has no particular signficance in some regards, but can have an impact as to how your regard and look back on the situation. If you like the fact that you can get pregnant, it can be encouraging and reassuring; if you don't, it can be a reminder to add to the research list some more effective contraception.
If you mentioned it, and (s)he accepted that as normal, then fine: if you didn't mention it, I might suggest you check it out and clarify. Your body's supposed to be adjusting (if you're pregnant) not having a crisis, so caution is reasonable and appropriate.
And moody and crying for no reason has got to be an indicator, so prepare for the best/worst (depending on your point of view).
The dr's advice may have been accurate, but it sounds like (s)he didn't necessarily point you in the direction of dealing with the possible symptoms, including emotional changes. Waiting doesn't mean doing nothing: waiting can mean applying yourself to matters that you can do something about, like researching options for motherhood, termination, testing, pregnancy (experience of), etc, while you 'wait' for what you can't do anything about.
Then, when your body either declares itself, with undisputed bleeding (negative) or testing positive, you will be better able to take the next steps. Also, be aware - see similar post (bradley) that even if you do eventually experience your 'period' with unmistakeable bleeding, that given the emotional hit you're taking, it may have been a miscarriage, which has no particular signficance in some regards, but can have an impact as to how your regard and look back on the situation. If you like the fact that you can get pregnant, it can be encouraging and reassuring; if you don't, it can be a reminder to add to the research list some more effective contraception.