PRECUM ON CLIT! PREGNANT?

1. If he masturbated to orgasm, then there would have been residual semen in his urethra.
2. If he urinated after that, any residual semen would have been flushed out.
3. If you didn't make him 'pre-cum', then who did? Pre-cum is pre-ejaculatory fluid. It comes before ejaculation but after arousal.
4. While he was stroking himself he would have got aroused, and especially as he was touching you also. That would lead to the 'pre-cum' in anticipation of his 'cum' (ejaculation).
5. You said, "I did feel some liquidy substance on his tip". If you meant the tip of his penis, then it suggests you masturbated him (you didn't say what you did). That would mean you would have got some pre-cum on your fingers. What did you do with your fingers after that? How soon after that did you masturbate yourself?
6. You mentioned your parents were strict. What is your background? Where are you from?

Well to answer your question, I didn’t touch myself at all actually, I did wipe my hands off either way. I am hispanic and so are my parents. They want the best for me and they know how much my boyfriend loves and how willing he is to do anything for me. My mom did speak to me before that she doesn’t believe in abortion and such and if she ever did find out I was pregnant without being married, she would probably break a broom stick over my boyfriend’s back and tell him to go get a job to support me. Also, I was mistaken, the liquidy substance I felt on his tip was actually urine from that morning which he forgot to wipe off to due rushing. I am sorry for the confusion. At this point, I don’t really think I am pregnant, but I want to rule the possibilty out because we didn’t touch genital-to-genital. At no point did he insert his fingers inside me, but he only remained on the upper side of my vagina (the clitoris). Also, I do remember his hands being dry when he touched me and I also recall asking him to clean his hands with like three tissues and he did. I did begin to masturbate him and that’s when I felt the urine, afterwards he decided to masturbate himself while touching me.

Thanks for the information. I certainly do not think you will get pregnant (you won't be yet anyway - that takes time). It probably was not urine you felt. That would have dried hours before. It was more likely pre-cum. However, I think from what you have said, you have no need of worrying about pregnancy.
It sounds as though you have a good family!
Take care.

Hi Shepherd999,
My cycle is normally irregular, usually late and sometimes skipping whole months at a time. However, last month it was only 26 days. I'm began my study abroad in Thailand at that time if that makes a different. My last period started on February 16.
On the 24th, me and a guy were doing stuff, he put a condom on, and then as I started to give him a bj, he took it off. After that, he tried to put it in me but I knew how dangerous that could be, so I stopped him before he really put it deep or cum. It didn't go far at all. Is there a chance that I could still get pregnant from precum? I didn't feel anything come out of him but I keep reading on the internet how everything is possible.
I am literally freaking myself out and cannot function to do anything else. I have extremely Christian parents who never have even talked about sex in front of me, so you can see why I have been worrying over such slim chances.

With a cycle of 26 days, 24 Feb could have been a fertile day, but with a cycle of 28 days, it probably wasn't. Pre-cum can contain sperm, especially if there were residual semen in his urethra.

1. "My cycle is normally irregular, usually late and sometimes skipping whole months at a time" If it is irregular, how do you decide it's late?
2. "I'm began my study abroad in Thailand" and the stress and disruption may have affected your cycle. Where are you from?
3. "me and a guy were doing stuff" You and a random guy? Doing stuff? Please try to be specific.
4. "I started to give him a bj" but you didn't say whether you continued. Did he ejaculate? Presumably nearly if not completely!
5. "After that, he tried to put it in me" After what? the BJ orgasm?
6. "I stopped him before he really put it deep or cum" So how far did he go? If he didn't "cum" then you wouldn't "feel anything come out of him". But if he did "cum", you still might not "feel anything come out of him". Have you felt anything previously?
7. "Is there a chance that I could still get pregnant from precum?" If you were wet (you didn't say anything about your own arousal or orgasm) then there might have been sufficient fluid for any sperm to swim into your vagina. Then only if it were at a fertile time.
8. "I have extremely Christian parents" but what about your own faith?
9. "parents who never have even talked about sex in front of me". If you want to talk about it (any aspect) feel free to do so, and specifically from a Christian viewpoint if you wish (privately if necessary)

I hope this helps as a start, I think the chances of pregnancy are very low, but you do need to be careful, and your concerns are somewhat justified.

1. When it does come, it is typical for it to be around 33-35 days, which was why I thought it strange for it to come in only 26 days last month. So my period should come in like a week and a half, but I'm worried that all this worry will delay it.
2. I'm from the Midwest in the US.
3. Yes, a local guy who I'd known about a week.
4. No, he didn't ejaculate in my mouth, I think because he wanted to finish in me
5. He didn't orgasm before
6. I know that he didn't cum, it was only for a few seconds or so, he was still hard when I made him take it out and he wanted to continue but I didn't because I was too scared
7. Yeah, I was really wet and turned on
8. I am too, yes, but as this is the first time being away from them, it's been my first time really trying to be myself and discovering who I am/ what I believe
9. yes, this is the worst of it, I just keep thinking, "What if I do become pregnant?" I would have no idea what to do whatsoever. I couldn't keep the baby and raise it on my own, and even for adoption, I couldn't deal with the stigma from my entire family and extended family who knew about the situation; it would be unbearable. And abortion would be out of the question because 1) I could not deal with the guilt/ I have identified as prolife in the past and 2) it is illegal here.

Thank you so much for your quick reply.

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1. So, by late periods you mean relative to the typical 28-day cycle. 33-35 days is quite regular and normal, but worry could delay your next even if you are not pregnant.
2. It is likely that your location/culture change had an impact on your cycle.
3. Having sex with “a local guy who I'd known about a week” puts you at a risk of STIs. I am quite concerned about that. Have you had casual sex previously?
4. Although “he didn't ejaculate in my mouth” he must have been close. So sperm may have mixed with his pre-cum.
5. “He didn't orgasm before”, but do you know when he last orgasmed?
6. “I know that he didn't cum … he was still hard when I made him take it out”, so did you see him ejaculate afterwards? Being still hard does not necessarily mean he didn't ejaculate at all.
7. “I was really wet and turned on”, so there would have been plenty of fluid for his sperm to swim into your vagina.
8. Can you tell me something about your Christian ‘tradition’ (denomination?). I am a Christian also, and would like to help you. Maybe we can talk about your search (private message) to discover “who I am/what I believe”. Maybe God has led you specifically to me?
9. You have come to a crisis point, but don’t feel alone. "What if I do become pregnant?" Let us cross that bridge if/when it come to it. “I couldn't deal with the stigma from my entire family and extended family who knew about the situation”, and that is why you need to re-evaluate your life and beliefs. I am glad you say “abortion would be out of the question” Many others have found they “could not deal with the guilt”.

I hope to hear from you soon. Take care!

Shoooot now I'm really scared. So you think there really is a chance then? This was actually my first time having any sort of genital to genital contact, like I said he had a condom on but then I'm pretty sure he took it off and never put a new one back on.
I don't know when he last orgasmed and I don't think he did at all that night. I just know that he really wanted to continue but I kept saying no and trying to get his penis away from me. I wasn't going to continue until I was sure he had a condom on. But he just laid there after I made him stop, still hard, looking really disappointed. I felt bad but at the same time proud of myself for stopping something I could regret.
And I didn't really feel scared that anything could come of it until I started looking on the internet and now I am absolutely petrified. Having a rough time trying to enjoy my study abroad now.

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1. "now I'm really scared" I'm at least as concerned about your health, opening yourself up to STIs!
2. "you think there really is a chance then?" Yes, there certainly is a chance, but I do not think there is a big probability.
3. "This was actually my first time having any sort of genital to genital contact" So you lost your virginity (or nearly so) to a local guy you only met a week earlier? Did your hymen rupture?
4. "he had a condom on but then I'm pretty sure he took it off" You gave him a bl*wjob and he took it off. I think you would have been aware if you were fellating a condom covered penis.
5. "never put a new one back on" What was happening? Surely you would have known if he put another one on?
6. "I don't know when he last orgasmed and I don't think he did at all that night" My feeling is that he had probably orgasmed earlier that day, but he might have urinated since, which could have cleaned his urethra of residual semen. You were with him all night? Given his solid arousal, I would be surprised if he didn't orgasm at some time. You probably did.
7. "he really wanted to continue" Of course he did. I think he was highly disappointed. He probably isn't used to being refused.
8. "I kept saying no and trying to get his penis away from me" So he was being persistent. I am glad you resisted though, and I think you are too.
9. "he just laid there after I made him stop, still hard, looking really disappointed" He was very disappointed. If you could see he was so hard, you would know whether he had a condom on or not! Also whether there was any pre-cum still showing.
10. "I felt bad but at the same time proud of myself for stopping something I could regret" He was being persistent, and as you said 'no', his continuing would have been rape. But it seems, from the little you have described, that you did rather lead him on. Please be very careful. Sexual intercourse ins't just a pleasurable act. It is a bonding activity.
11. "... something I could regret" What specific 'something'? Sex? Virginity loss? STI? Or just pregnancy? Could regret? Not would regret? Or did regret?
12. "I didn't really feel scared that anything could come of it until I started looking on the internet" What made you look at the internet?
13. "I am absolutely petrified" Did you not realise the risks? Please feel free to ask absolutely any questions you like.
14. "Having a rough time trying to enjoy my study abroad now" That's understandable.

I'll try to help you through all this.

So, on the 3rd of march, my girlfriend and i were fooling around. With spooning position, I rubbed her v with my p. While we were doing it, i also cover the tip of my p, but after a while i noticed that there’s some sticky fluid that comes out of my p but it was dense unlike precum, so i decided to stop rubbing her v.
Idk if it was sperm because i didn’t orgasm and the lights were turned off.
Here’s the date of her last 4 period history:
3 november - 3 december
3 december - 1 january
1 january - 29 january
29 january - 25 february

is there any way somehow that my sperm leaks without my control?
And is there any chance that she would eventually become pregnant?
It’s 29th march and she still not have her period yet.
Please help.

*26th march
Sorry about that.

[1] Yes, semen can leak
[2] Very small chance (very short cycle)
[3] 26th March is only 29 days from 25 Feb. Her Nov/Dec cycle was 30 days.
Her period may start soon

Hey. I just wanted to ask if I had a tiny bit of precum on my fingers, and I rubbed my girlfriend’s clit later (I’m pretty sure it dried by that time), can she still get pregnant?

It the finger had been dry, any sperm in the precum would have died. Anyway, for her to get pregnant, sperm would have to have found its way into her vagina at a fertile time.
With a smaller clit, there tends to be a larger distance from the clit 'head' to the vagina opening.

So there is pretty much no type of chance of her being pregnant? Even if that little bit of precum wasn’t dry and I just touched her clit and nothing else?