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I don't take birth control but my boyfriend and I always use a condom. We got really in the mood and decided to do anal.. Which was horrible I couldn't do it at all. So he ended up going into my vagina and stoked a couple of times then pulled out and chummed on top of my vagina, but not really by the entrance. I knew I was ovulating when we did these activities. That happen on the 6th and I was supposed to get my period on the 8th which I have been 3 times in a row but now it's the 11th and I still have no signs of starting or anything. I usually get cramps before. & my best friend and I have the same exact PSM cycle and she already got hers and got off. I talked to her and her boyfriend they Said by the end of the week or Sunday if I haven't gotten it they were forcing me to take a test. I have no money, my parents will kick me out, and my boyfriend would most likely leave me. I don't believe in adoptions, I don't know what I would do. Help me please.

Hi Thiscantbe,

You had sex on the 6th and expected your period on the 8th?

If so, you weren't ovulating.  You're just about at your lowest fertility.

The day your period starts is Day 1 of your cycle.  Normally you will ovulate between day 11 and 16.  You had sex around day 26. 

The egg is only viable for about 48 hours or so (until day 18). 

Translation: it is unlikely that you'd get pregnant from sexual activity on the 6th.

But, you have been sexually active and there is always a chance.  You are late.  It's time to take a home test.  You MUST use your wake up pee - it will give you the best accuracy, really.  Don't wasted the test by doing it at any other time.  Your wake up pee is the MOST concentrated of the day and that's what you need.  Use a name brand test too.  It makes no sense to buy a cheap test that is unreliable and then you end up buying 3 or 4 of them.

If you decide to have sex then you have to accept the risks, sorry.  I'm not intending to sound harsh.  If your boyfriend would truly leave you then WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM? 

Good luck.

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