Im feeling what all of you are feeling I’m 52!my husband had a vasectomy 18 years ago our children are 27,23,18 and I’m nervous too . I started out at the first of the year with s surgery then I had a regular cycle then the next month I two in the same month then the next month nothing hen the next month two and since then now it has been two months just cramps and nothing . Haven’t tried a pregnancy test thinking I just may wait not sure