I had sex with my partner on Feb 6,7,8. I had my last menstruation last Jan. 5 and so he was that confident not to withdraw it out then because it is safe. Yet, we took pregnancy test and it was positive! Now, I was really thinking if it was a pre-ejaculation or because of unprotected sex on those said dates, since I have also irregular menstruation period.We decided even before that if I get pregnant, we will abort the child.However, since this day came, I am already in doubt, I have many considerations though,I am the breadwinner in my family and he is still a student. I cannot sacrifice the future of my siblings that is only depending on me,besides, since I am already independent and earning, I don't want to depend on my parent's in law to be if I will save this one. Additionally, If I will let this one out, Everyone's future will be ruined from my parents, siblings,mine,my partner and even to my child to be. But, if I will have an abortion, I am not totally sure also if it will be successful thus my life will be at risk.I don't know what to think now,to have an abortion or to save this.:'(%-) what do you think? :(
Have you thought about adoption??
I would make an appointment with a local agency and have them tell you all about it and show you the process. It would be a great option in my opinion. There are tons of wonderful people in the world that can not have kids do to the fact that she have an ovary problem or he is infertile because of an accident etc. My aunt is going through the process right now so I know a little bit about it but shes adopting. They had her make up a book with pictures and about me and what I have done in my life etc so potential people can look at it and if they like her they will meet with her. They have closed adoption when once the paper work is done you never have to see or hear about the baby again to open adoption where you can meet once a year and receive pictures etc. Its really up to you and most couples are willing to work with you. Raising a baby is extremely hard and you have made the first step of wanting to give the baby a better life than what you could do. Most adopting couples are finacially secure and could provide a life you could only dream of for your baby. Also they go through several background checks so you know your not giving your baby to a felon or criminal of any kind.
Good Luck and I wish you the best.....