I've been currently sexually active for about 2 months and this month I started experiencing problems. Me and my boyfriend were having sex and I guess he was a little rough. He finished and when he pulled out he noticed I was bleeding a little, but I didnt feel any pain inside. The blood was light and so I wasnt too worried about it, since I considered the idea of how tight I am. So two days later, even though I was still bleeding, (just a small amount) we had sex again and as soon as I had orgasam we had noticed there was now alot of blood. It was like this for about 5 days or so? After that he was more gentle when it came to sex. Now today we were just messing around and he was fingering me. After he had left I noticed I am now having this light brownish discharge. I am confused and wondering what is going on. And I was suppose to have my period last week which I havent had...it usually tends to be a few days late, but still hasnt started. We always use protection and I have no way to go to a doctor and check this out because my parents have no idea about me being sexually active or me having a boyfriend. Any ideas? Thanks.
I'm currently having bleeding problems after sex too but I've been having sex for 5 years now so its really confusing for me. The discharge problem has also been a issue with me in the past. When that first started happening to me it turned out to be a yeast infection. I didn't itch or anything like that so I didn't know that's what it was. You may be bleeding because when you have a yeast infection there is an imbalance in the bacteria production which can cause sensitivity on the walls of the inside of your vagina, which can be ruptured easily and may cause you to bleed.
You can buy yeast infection kits at wal mart, but I highly suggest you see some nurse practitioner or something because you should only use those things if you are for certain its a yeast infection.
I understand about not wanting your parents to find out, so you may not be able to go to a doctor, but you can try a health department or something... or a family clinic. That's what I have always done, even before my mom knew I was sexually active. They can't give out information without your consent... depending on your age. If you're under the age of 12 then they can tell but otherwise they cannot (thats the rule in Kentucky at least.)
I don't know what else to tell you. You should at least go talk to a nurse or something about it - they have to keep it confidential. Maybe even a school nurse or something.
I know it sounds like it can be embarrassing, but I promise you it is nothing to be ashamed about because most women have some type of problem like this every day.
Good luck!
You can buy yeast infection kits at wal mart, but I highly suggest you see some nurse practitioner or something because you should only use those things if you are for certain its a yeast infection.
I understand about not wanting your parents to find out, so you may not be able to go to a doctor, but you can try a health department or something... or a family clinic. That's what I have always done, even before my mom knew I was sexually active. They can't give out information without your consent... depending on your age. If you're under the age of 12 then they can tell but otherwise they cannot (thats the rule in Kentucky at least.)
I don't know what else to tell you. You should at least go talk to a nurse or something about it - they have to keep it confidential. Maybe even a school nurse or something.
I know it sounds like it can be embarrassing, but I promise you it is nothing to be ashamed about because most women have some type of problem like this every day.
Good luck!
I just want to agree here with tlgambrel, this is your personal health issue so you don't have anything to be embarrassed about. I know that sometimes it can be difficult to make a first step.
tlgambrel gave you some good info here.
Are you doing any better Melody191919? Keep us posted on your condition.
All the best
tlgambrel gave you some good info here.
Are you doing any better Melody191919? Keep us posted on your condition.
All the best
I'm having the same issue. I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend have been having sex for over a year now. He's at college and when he came home we had sex. It had been awhile so I was surprised for bleeding a little after. But i kept bleeding lightly for about three days and then discharging. Should I see a doctor? I'm worried I have something.