Hey Guys, I have a huge problem. I was raped last year of august...didn't understand any of it...even to be rape. He broke my hymn as I was a virgin at 21. I had no desire to have sex with him...I just wanted him to hold me when we slept. I quit school for six months because I had PTSD that was misdiagnosed as depression as this is the first time I have ever told anyone. He was in honest a stranger that was a friend of a friends. I am going to tell the cops today but I am so scared because he is a very powerful PI attorney in Santa Monica. I just graduated from UC Berkeley so I am not stupid either. I just am well...frankly, terrified of my parents finding out...of losing...of everything. I NEED YOUR HELP! And your prayers. I think I finally am going to go see a rape counselor because I need to work this out. I am dating a pediatrician who is gentle and kind and everything I wanted in a man. We finally slept together at my age 22. I was ready as I knew him for a year including that hard time in my life.
THANKS FOR YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT.
Goddess Bless. :D :D :D
THANKS FOR YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT.
Goddess Bless. :D :D :D
i am so sorry to hear about what happend to you. but i am glad to see that your reaching out for help and are choosing to take action about the situation, even a year later.
rape is a serious offense, and no matter who it is, or what they do, rapists must be put behind bars because if they do it once, chances are they will do it again. i would take some time to really think about what a huge step it is in telling the police and your family about this. do not worry about what your family will think, im sure they wont think anything less of you. it was a situation you could not have prevented im sure and they will understand.
take a weekend getaway to clear your head, sit down and really think about this. really think about what you will say when they ask why you didnt report this when it happend. not to say that this didnt happen to you, but there are ALOT of girls who will claim to have been raped, but really havent.
i wish you the best of luck
someonetotalkto at live dot ca if you need to talk
xox
rape is a serious offense, and no matter who it is, or what they do, rapists must be put behind bars because if they do it once, chances are they will do it again. i would take some time to really think about what a huge step it is in telling the police and your family about this. do not worry about what your family will think, im sure they wont think anything less of you. it was a situation you could not have prevented im sure and they will understand.
take a weekend getaway to clear your head, sit down and really think about this. really think about what you will say when they ask why you didnt report this when it happend. not to say that this didnt happen to you, but there are ALOT of girls who will claim to have been raped, but really havent.
i wish you the best of luck
someonetotalkto at live dot ca if you need to talk
xox
It's not rape, you asked him to sleep with you.
its sad wat happened with u.....but u shud hav stopped him......
Sleep as in sleep not sex! seriously get it right...