in all perspective masturbation still pose a threat to our society how can we control the rate at which young people masturbate so as at the end of the day we are not shifting blame from scientific reviews to our thinking that what we used to do was right or is right. how can we not go to the extreme of this practice?
HUH???????? Are you kidding? My suggestion is to GET OVER YOURSELF, not only do you have NO understanding of Sex, or Human Nature, or a Healthy Body, but you have been messed up by............. well, that's pretty obvious.
Yes, there are a small number of people who have a problem with obsessive masturbation, but generally it's NOT THE MASTURBATION that's the problem, it's the underlying psychological problem that's producing the behavior.
Masturbation is as normal for most men as breathing. As for women, more and more are learning how to reach orgasm by masturbating and also just being more up front about liking to masturbate.
It's YOUR THINKING that makes kids so confused about sex, that makes them feel guilty for behaving NORMALLY, that destroys their self esteem, that makes them mistrust everything adults tell them.
How do we not go to extremes? Well, when we are old enough we integrate sex into the mix and develop a healthy interest in both.
Yes, there are a small number of people who have a problem with obsessive masturbation, but generally it's NOT THE MASTURBATION that's the problem, it's the underlying psychological problem that's producing the behavior.
Masturbation is as normal for most men as breathing. As for women, more and more are learning how to reach orgasm by masturbating and also just being more up front about liking to masturbate.
It's YOUR THINKING that makes kids so confused about sex, that makes them feel guilty for behaving NORMALLY, that destroys their self esteem, that makes them mistrust everything adults tell them.
How do we not go to extremes? Well, when we are old enough we integrate sex into the mix and develop a healthy interest in both.
Life is not long to make many mistake s ans assume that thy are normal or not. You look having knowledge in psychological interests.then i should not remind you that a massive killing only happen out of good will.
so as people masturbate to falling the victims of death or prostate cancer.
You agreed with me that masturbation is not normal by doubting the view of men.But my view is not basically to men but its also to young ladies who are in it.
and you haven't answered my question how do we prevent extremism
so as people masturbate to falling the victims of death or prostate cancer.
You agreed with me that masturbation is not normal by doubting the view of men.But my view is not basically to men but its also to young ladies who are in it.
and you haven't answered my question how do we prevent extremism
First, I don't agree with YOU about ANYTHING!! You are totally misinformed about both health and psychology. First, the men who remain sexually active, either through masturbation or sex with another, have a much healthier prostate.
I'm seeing men with E.D. who are younger and younger. The first thing I ask them is how often they masturbate. I'm not surprised when they say either "rarely" or "I'm married and have sex about once a week" (or far less)........ but now they have E,D. and they aren't having ANY KIND OF SEX. With the male organs it's a case of USE IT OR LOSE IT. It's like a muscle that atrophies when you stop using it. This is why exercise keeps our body in better condition, including our heart. and circulatory system.
(I'm going to mainly talk about men because I am a man and feel that women are better represented by themselves. I will however, say that women who masturbate report they have better sex lives and feel good about themselves for doing it. There are even classes for women that teach them various masturbation techniques....... BUT only a woman can accurately speak to how they feel about this subject.)
Let's see if I can't explain the process to you. Imagine, as a boy, that one day in your early teens you wake up with this MIRACULOUS CHANGE...... you can fly. When you fly you fill with joy, you feel amazing.... special..... and powerful. It doesn't matter if you are the shortest boy in your class, or if you stink at sports...... when you fly all of that stress disappears. What happens? Well, you begin to feel better about yourself and you now have this wonderful ability. It hurts NO ONE and makes you feel blessed. Also, for the first time in your life you know how the other boys feel when they are good at something like sports or how special they feel about being tall and good looking. Flying, for you, helps even the playing field.
Masturbation is like flying. It makes a boy feel NORMAL because now his sexual equipment WORKS like the other boys, and like them he's on the road to manhood. Now he understands what they're talking about when they exchange stories about being turned on or feeling like they can't wait to shoot a load and release some tension. Haven't you read what kids from 12 to 18 keep writing in about....... Why can't I shoot semen yet? Is my penis too small? And countless questions about masturbation...... not worry over doing it...... worried because so far it's not "complete." I'm talking about dozens of young boys writing in about something as common as RAIN. We are male and our sex is a large part of what defines us....... NOT HOW MANY YEARS WE CAN GO WITHOUT TOUCHING OURSELVES....... BUT HOW GREAT IT IS TO ENJOY THE PROCESS YOU SEE AS DESTROYING SOCIETY...... A TRULY SICK COMMENT.
But I can see your point....... just think of the traffic accidents from all those people driving with only one free hand...... or all the patients in surgery developing complications from surgeons only using one hand....... all the stretched out waistbands on pants, from men walking around with one hand shoved down their trousers....... and how will our students be able to take notes and answer questions when they only have one hand available to write AND to raise for answering questions...... OHHHHHH DEAR ME, IT'S THE END OF CIVILIZATION.
But FEAR NOT, because most males don't walk around jerking off, all the time....... just enough to make society teeter, but not actually collapse.
On a more serious note, the ability to masturbate is God (Nature) given; it's what keeps us sane from puberty, which is taking place at younger and younger ages, till we can become sexually active, (PLUS IT TEACHES US HOW OUR EQUIPMENT WORKS..... AND ALL THE VARIOUS EROGENOUS ZONES ETC, ETC. ETC.)...... or I'm sure in your beliefs until we can get married. Just ask a man if he could have survived from say 13 to 23 without masturbation.... or sex. If he says, "No problem" then make sure to visit him often on the Mental Ward....... OR in the alternative, he's just lying (a common practice when you've been trained by society to be ashamed of a very normal process....... but then society teaches us to be ashamed of our erections and for that matter of our penises and testes as well.
I see sexually dysfunctional men every day and generally the biggest problems revolve around guilt over NORMAL feelings, a dysfunctional family history (spankings or worse for touching himself as long as he can remember), punishment for ASKING QUESTIONS ABOUT "FILTHY THINGS"....... being beaten or humiliated for having an erection OR GOD FORBID being caught pleasuring himself. Is it any wonder that now he's either obsessed with sex OR that he fears it so much he can't get an erection except in his sleep.
I'd suggest YOU try............. RELAXING. It might help you unclench.
I'm sorry if I'm being harsh, but you have NO CLUE the DAMAGE your ideas cause........ Why not try, "Live and Let Live."...... or....... "The Golden Rule"....... or read what's been written TO PARENTS about dealing with their children's sexuality, including masturbation.
Finally...... Extremism is the guy who has his hands down his pants, playing with himself, every waking moment, and it's already being dealt with. Most of these guys are in Mental Facilities or are being treated. AND AS I SAID....... IT'S NOT THE MASTURBATION THAT'S THE PROBLEM, IT'S THE PSYCHOLOGICAL DISORDER UNDERLYING THIS BEHAVIOR. As with so many behavioral problems there's a deeper problem beneath the surface that produces the behavior. Force them to stop the behavior and BINGO another troubling behavior takes its place.
I'm seeing men with E.D. who are younger and younger. The first thing I ask them is how often they masturbate. I'm not surprised when they say either "rarely" or "I'm married and have sex about once a week" (or far less)........ but now they have E,D. and they aren't having ANY KIND OF SEX. With the male organs it's a case of USE IT OR LOSE IT. It's like a muscle that atrophies when you stop using it. This is why exercise keeps our body in better condition, including our heart. and circulatory system.
(I'm going to mainly talk about men because I am a man and feel that women are better represented by themselves. I will however, say that women who masturbate report they have better sex lives and feel good about themselves for doing it. There are even classes for women that teach them various masturbation techniques....... BUT only a woman can accurately speak to how they feel about this subject.)
Let's see if I can't explain the process to you. Imagine, as a boy, that one day in your early teens you wake up with this MIRACULOUS CHANGE...... you can fly. When you fly you fill with joy, you feel amazing.... special..... and powerful. It doesn't matter if you are the shortest boy in your class, or if you stink at sports...... when you fly all of that stress disappears. What happens? Well, you begin to feel better about yourself and you now have this wonderful ability. It hurts NO ONE and makes you feel blessed. Also, for the first time in your life you know how the other boys feel when they are good at something like sports or how special they feel about being tall and good looking. Flying, for you, helps even the playing field.
Masturbation is like flying. It makes a boy feel NORMAL because now his sexual equipment WORKS like the other boys, and like them he's on the road to manhood. Now he understands what they're talking about when they exchange stories about being turned on or feeling like they can't wait to shoot a load and release some tension. Haven't you read what kids from 12 to 18 keep writing in about....... Why can't I shoot semen yet? Is my penis too small? And countless questions about masturbation...... not worry over doing it...... worried because so far it's not "complete." I'm talking about dozens of young boys writing in about something as common as RAIN. We are male and our sex is a large part of what defines us....... NOT HOW MANY YEARS WE CAN GO WITHOUT TOUCHING OURSELVES....... BUT HOW GREAT IT IS TO ENJOY THE PROCESS YOU SEE AS DESTROYING SOCIETY...... A TRULY SICK COMMENT.
But I can see your point....... just think of the traffic accidents from all those people driving with only one free hand...... or all the patients in surgery developing complications from surgeons only using one hand....... all the stretched out waistbands on pants, from men walking around with one hand shoved down their trousers....... and how will our students be able to take notes and answer questions when they only have one hand available to write AND to raise for answering questions...... OHHHHHH DEAR ME, IT'S THE END OF CIVILIZATION.
But FEAR NOT, because most males don't walk around jerking off, all the time....... just enough to make society teeter, but not actually collapse.
On a more serious note, the ability to masturbate is God (Nature) given; it's what keeps us sane from puberty, which is taking place at younger and younger ages, till we can become sexually active, (PLUS IT TEACHES US HOW OUR EQUIPMENT WORKS..... AND ALL THE VARIOUS EROGENOUS ZONES ETC, ETC. ETC.)...... or I'm sure in your beliefs until we can get married. Just ask a man if he could have survived from say 13 to 23 without masturbation.... or sex. If he says, "No problem" then make sure to visit him often on the Mental Ward....... OR in the alternative, he's just lying (a common practice when you've been trained by society to be ashamed of a very normal process....... but then society teaches us to be ashamed of our erections and for that matter of our penises and testes as well.
I see sexually dysfunctional men every day and generally the biggest problems revolve around guilt over NORMAL feelings, a dysfunctional family history (spankings or worse for touching himself as long as he can remember), punishment for ASKING QUESTIONS ABOUT "FILTHY THINGS"....... being beaten or humiliated for having an erection OR GOD FORBID being caught pleasuring himself. Is it any wonder that now he's either obsessed with sex OR that he fears it so much he can't get an erection except in his sleep.
I'd suggest YOU try............. RELAXING. It might help you unclench.
I'm sorry if I'm being harsh, but you have NO CLUE the DAMAGE your ideas cause........ Why not try, "Live and Let Live."...... or....... "The Golden Rule"....... or read what's been written TO PARENTS about dealing with their children's sexuality, including masturbation.
Finally...... Extremism is the guy who has his hands down his pants, playing with himself, every waking moment, and it's already being dealt with. Most of these guys are in Mental Facilities or are being treated. AND AS I SAID....... IT'S NOT THE MASTURBATION THAT'S THE PROBLEM, IT'S THE PSYCHOLOGICAL DISORDER UNDERLYING THIS BEHAVIOR. As with so many behavioral problems there's a deeper problem beneath the surface that produces the behavior. Force them to stop the behavior and BINGO another troubling behavior takes its place.
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