I am writing out of utter confustion. I visited a clinic to inquire about ending my pregnancy 3 weeks ago. My husband and I had been trying to get pregnant, but soon seperated after we found out we were pregnant. Just cannot get along. He is trying to control me and threaten me about choices I make. I just see this as a forecast of how the next 18 years will be. Arguing! I do not want this situation. I waited 35 years to have a husband to go through the process with me. Help with feeding, etc. He filed divorce papers 3 days after he moved out. But he "says he wants to reconcile". I do not trust this. I feel he just wants his child. he threatens me about getting an abortion. I am scared and confused. I have a new self employed career and want to not lose this. On top of this I am suffereing like everyone else with the bad economy. Afraid I cannot provide properly for my child alone. I have no family within 500 miles. Unfortunately, I now have court orders that will not let me go to my family out of state. What do I do. I am afraid of the aftermath psycological problems I may have with abortion...........trapped :-(
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Hi honey! I nor anyone else can tell you what you should do - we ARENT in your position! Does he have a court order against you having an abortion? And how can you have a court order about not seeing your family? In most States and Provinces a woman can get an abortion without any other input! Is he threatening your life or physical wellbeing? As I told another woman on here - in a similar situation - WHEN someone is trying to tell you or show you their true self, LISTEN!!! He has shown you his TRUE sefl, and is NOW telling you what he i REALLY like! This will NOT get easier that is for sure! From this second forward just ask him to text you or email you NO phone calls etc. You HAVE to be able to document everything! Be Careful and IF you need to get a restraining order do so! Tell me more about the family order!
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