i am a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend is 19....i had sex with him many times....but when we had it the last time....i was on my menstruation on the 6th day and i bleeded after having sex..and we had it without condoms....he told me that he controlled the sperms and i will not get pregnant..but im scared .....whether i will get pregnant or not?
I hate to be the one to tell you the bad news but he is lying to you. When you dont use condoms there is a HIGH possibility of pregnancy. There is NO way to "control" sperm unless your using condoms. As your having sexual intercourse he is making pre-cum which can contain active sperm. Sperm can live in the open air until the semen dries out killing the sperm. Sperm can last inside of your vagina on an average of 3 days but if your ph level is good and you have plenty of mucus then the sperm can last up to 5 days. IF he pulls out of you and ejaculates on your thigh or above your vagina, etc it can drip down on your vagina causing pregnancy. All it takes is one sperm to become pregnant. Wait for your period and if it is more than a few days late take a pregnancy test. In the meantime if your going to be sexual active you need to use birth control daily and condoms everytime you have sex.
thank you....but i had bleeded after having sex....that to it was menstruation....will u still say il get pregnant? .....and i had even washed my vagina with water staright away as he told me the sperm had dropped on my thigh?....is there still any posiibililties of gettin pregnant?
Dear Mishali
Note well what Heather has said.
"is there still any posiibililties of gettin pregnant?" Like Heather, I also think the pregnancy chances are low.
However, I will emphasise the 1st comment Heather made "he is lying to you." You stated "he told me that he controlled the sperms and i will not get pregnant" ... but you have just said "he told me the sperm had dropped on my thigh". So he was not very well controlled, was he? The chances are that there was more than precum deposited in your vagina: semen also!