You sound like a sad bastard! Get a f*****g life.
My husband continuously has yellow stains in his underwear. We haven't been intimate in over 3yrs. He ejaculates by himself at night.
If there is smears especially on the outside he is definatly sleeping with someone else and changing his underwear or taking them off for some reason is trying to cover up.
My guy has to go to his exs a few times a week to see his kids. He has come back a few times with new marks. He has told me before that he does pull over and masturbate coming home some times yet he will still deny doing anything even after I see the marks. Is he fooling around with his ex or just pleasing himself when he can and is to embarresed to tell me ??
Also i know he is not staying or getting erect because of where the marks are they are different to when we are together.
This is my biggest fear, for something be going on and everyone but me finds out. My partner has come home with marks a few times. Swears he isn't cheating. I no the difference if he sleeps with me and only wipes clean and these marks were not the same so he is either pleasing himself and for some reason can't be honest about that or he is getting aroused by the mother of his kids where he goes twice a week mostly or he sleeping with someone and washing it well enough to take away smell and other evidance but not his leakage. I would be really pissed off if I foung out he was cheating since I have asked him several times and he has denyed it. Says I never have to worry about him cheating because he loves me to much.
In my case the short answer is YES!! Men can experience Semen Leakage without Ejaculation. It happens to me all the time and one day my wife freaked out and questioned me cause she thought I was cheating. I said I have Blue Balls and since I don't masturbate (because I don't feel I have too) this is what happens when I'm backed up, my mind wonders and I leak. She didn't believe me, now she does! Because now EVERY TIME it happens (which is usually more than a week without sex) I show her my underware. We can be with each other all day so she knows where I've been, and it happens. That's now my way of saying I'm turned on and need a release. It may sound crude but if she can accuse me of cheating because she doesn't have the same sex drive as me, than I can be crude and show her my underware stains because she doesn't have the same sex drive as me. BTW It sucks!! I hope that answers your question.
Thank you. My biggest issue is he can be with me for 3-5 days straight without marks. He usually had been at work and at his exs seeing the kids when its happened. They do what he calls shed talk could talking of sexual matters do the same thing ?
Thank you for your reply really appreciate it :-)
Thank you for your reply really appreciate it :-)
You're welcome. I can only speak to my personal experience. The optics don't look good, but try not to jump to conclusions. Hopefully he is staying faithful. Good Luck to you.
Thanks do you think that conversations can lead to thinking which can lead to the leak ??
I would like to think he is only pleasing himself and can't be honest but if conversation can get it moving to then maybe its a little of that and a little of self pleassure. What do you think on that ?
Absolutely. The main difference for me is, I can get an erection without a leak. But if I'm turned on and thinking about sex and haven't had sex in a while, that's when I get an erection that subsides with a leak. And if goes on and off all day, the more mess.
He needs to be honest with you. Trust me, my wife held it in for a long time and it built resentment, which led to less sex. When she finally approached me about the stains, I told her, she didn't believe me, now she does. I show her every time it happens, saying I'm turned on is one thing, showing her is another. It's kinda my thing now. Like I said hopefully he's staying faithful.
Thank you so much. I am hoping it innocent other than sinister. I really thank you for you responses. I wish there were more open guys like you out there. Ive not met one yet. Thanks again and all the best with your honest loving relatiinship :-)
I know him and yes, you're right!! He's definitely cheating on you. However, rather than confronting him with it you should just get banged out real good by a human pile driver like myself. I'll jackhammer you so good you'll wish he cheats more often just so you can have an excuse to see me.