Sex During Period

Are you worried about possible pregnancy or something else?

If it's pregnancy: it's unlikely but POSSIBLE to get pregnant while menstruating.  I assume since you mentioned you had unprotected sex that your girlfriend isn't using another form of birth control/contraception e.g. the birth control pill, or you would have said so.  

Your question was a little hard to follow but if I understood you right, then the unprotected sex happened yesterday?  (You said you had sex on the 3rd day of her period and her period started on December 6th, so the third day was December 8th - yesterday)  She has plenty of time to get Emergency Contraception (also known as "Plan B", "The Morning After Pill", "EC Pill"), but get it soon!  Like, right now!  The longer time passes after unprotected intercourse, the less chance it has of working.  You have up to 3 days or possibly up to 5 days depending on the pill, from the time you had unprotected sex.  If at least one of you is 18 years old or older, you can buy it over the counter in any state in the United States.  If both of you are under 18, check the laws for your state.  You may be able to buy it over the counter if one of you is 17, or you may be able to have a pharmacist write you a prescription (meaning you can do it right there at the pharmacy) if you are 17 or even 16 I think in a few states, but other states require you to go to a doctor and get a doctor's prescription if you are under age 18 (some require for anyone age 17 or younger, some for those age 16 and below, and some may only require it at age 15 and younger).  

Also, be aware that some states allow pharmacists to REFUSE to sell you Emergency Contraception if they have a moral or religious reason, and in states where pharmacists have the option to become licensed to write a prescription for 17 year olds, also some can refuse.  Depending on where you live, you may be surrounded by places that have pharmacists that refuse to dispense EC and many won't even keep it in stock!  You might have to drive some distance (again, it depends on where you live and what things are like there) to find a pharmacy that has it in stock, a pharmacist that will sell it to you, or a pharmacist that will write you a prescription if that applies.  Call your nearest pharmacy to find out before you drive down there (ask questions about the info I just mentioned, to make sure one of you will be able to buy it there), and if you don't have success, then call another one.  

Please note: Emergency Contraception is NOT the abortion pill!  If she's already pregnant, it WON'T do anything to abort, stop or hurt her pregnancy.  Emergency Contraception doesn't work all the time but it drastically decreases her chances of getting pregnant, as long as it's taken soon enough.  So if this is the concern, you need to go out right now and start calling pharmacies and get it to her/have her get it (you should probably do the nice thing and go get it for her, since she may be very worried - even more than you are - unless only one of you can buy it without a prescription and she is the older one...or at least go with her to get it).  Every minute counts!  Like I said, depending on the pill (there are different ones available but they all do basically the same thing), you might have 3 days from the time you had sex (that's 72 hours) or up to 5 days, but no matter what it has a lower chance of working the longer you wait.

If she takes any other medications right now (for anything) make sure you check with the pharmacist that it's safe for her to take the Emergency Contraception pill (if you go and she doesn't go with you, ask her to write down the names for any medicines she takes, even ones that are over the counter or non-prescription), just be sure.  There's almost no drug interactions, and Emergency Contraception has the same thing that the normal birth control pill has, except it's only 1 hormone instead of 2 (like most typical birth control pills) and it's a much larger amount - but it's still very safe and usually won't even have side effects or if you do get them they are mild and go away pretty quickly.  But again, you want to be sure, so make sure you (or your girlfriend) tell the pharmacist what she takes and ask if it's okay to take the EC pill with them.  

Then after you get the medicine, make sure she reads the directions and call the pharmacy if you have any questions after you get back.  For example, some forms have 1 pill and some have 2, and for the ones with 2 pills, some of them you have to take both pills at the same time, others you have to take them hours apart at different times, so make sure she follows the instructions carefully, because that matters. 

After she takes the pill, there's nothing else you can do but wait and take a pregnancy test.  If she likes, she can call her doctor (her Primary Care Physician or her OBGYN) and let him or her know the situation and ask any questions about what she should do in the meantime, if she's particularly anxious or worried.

If your concern WASN'T possible pregnancy then I just wasted a whole lot of time and effort, but really, unless you know you both want children right and are 100% financially, physically, mentally, emotionally, socially and medically able and prepared to have, support and raise a child, AND you're both ready to spend the rest of your lives together (because a child binds the 2 of you together for life, no matter what, even if you don't get married, even if you break up, you will have to interact in a civil, kind way with one another and communicate very frequently and so much more, and yes, this continue even after the child turns 18 or even 21) she should really get Emergency Contraception just to be safe.  I'm sure there's lots of time in the future for children if you want them.

In the future, use a condom!  Why risk your own health and life (remember, just because someone says they are "exclusive", meaning they're only having sex with you and you're only having sex with them, doesn't mean they aren't lying to you or haven't slipped up even once), or risk hers (unless you were tested for HIV and all sexually transmitted diseases after your last partner and before you began having sex of any kind with her - not just intercourse but other things that can still transmit STDs)? There's absolutely no way to know you're safe with complete certainty, even if you're in a monogamous relationship - she could have an STD/STI and not even know it, and so could you.  You clearly care about her to be so worried, but remember, caring about her health (and yours too) is just as important if you want to show her you care, or you love her, or to treat her decently and with respect, so that means having safe sex.

And finally, if you're worried about something else, I'm not sure what it is.  Sex could have caused her period to stop earlier than normal or stop temporarily (which doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong), and that could be for probably quite a few reasons.  I don't know what those reasons are, but due to the hormones that are released during sex, it's possible that could have affected her cycle.  If she's worried, or starts to get symptoms she doesn't normally get like really bad cramps (that she doesn't normally get), or unusual bleeding, or if she has a fever or something, then she should just call her doctor.  They'll let her know if they think she should come in or not, but assuming she doesn't have some other kind of medical problem (that would be related to this) and you (meaning both of you) didn't do anything that might have caused her injury (accidentally, of course), and also that you aren't worried about pregnancy, then I believe she is most likely fine. (but I am not a doctor - although all of my info given about Emergency Contraception I believe, to the best of my ability, is completely accurate, and has come from my own comprehensive knowledge on the subject)

Good luck and I wish you both the best!

Thank you for that Useful Information.

 

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This Morning as we check. There wer white tiny particles and a little blood in her Napkin. i dont know what is it.... 

 she change her napkin and until this evening no blood @ all.

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