My wife says that it hurts her when we try to have sex without a condom like the head of my penis hurts her does anyone have any ideas why
Hi guest. Can you give more information like does it hurt her as you enter or when your right inside is she wet enough have you tried extra lubricant what condoms you use and what positions of having sex in hurts or is it all?
It hurts her matter what position and hurts while I enter and while I am in and only hurts when I do not use a condom of i use one she does not hurt
Is she wet enough before you try to enter her when not using a condom have you tried using extra lubricant and what brand of condom do you use?
Yes she is normally wet enough I make sure of that and when we do use a condom I use Trojan no lubricant
We have pretty much always used a condom "she makes me in fear of getting pregnant even though she is on be " but every now and then she will let me not use one but we have tried twice with not using one and she says the head of my penis hurts her and I am just trying to figure out what's going on and why and we don't normally use lubricant I have some though should I try using some next time we decide to not use a condom
My main consern is that there is nothing wrong with her cause I never had this problem before and it's kinda aggravating
If it was a lubricant problem wouldn't it hurt her when I wear a condom to ?
It could be a simple fact that because she is scared of getting pregnant when having unprotected sex so she is more tensed up and her vaginal muscles are more taught there for making penetration and being inside painful where as when you use a condom to she is more relaxed about it. Does she say where the pain is, at the entrance or from inside?
Next time you have unprotected sex try some extra lubricant on your penis and around the entrance of her vagina and see if that helps and let up know how you get on.