My wife and I will observe (not celebrate, pity...) our 6-year wedding anniversary soon. She is no longer interested in intercourse and will not even touch my body in any way. She 'is turned off' by my body and cannot stand affection. I consider myself in excellent shape, have great hygiene and muscle tone. Wifey has put on a few pounds and complains of constipation. I believe her lack of sex with me shuts down certain hormones which control 'regularity' leaving her constipated. Still attracted to her, I cannot get her in the mood no matter how much I romance her. Is their any information which reinforces my statement about no-sex and constipation?
Not sure how to answer that question. However her lack of desire may indicate other areas of concern. I would look for areas which have changed in your lives and relationship. See if there is some way to rekindle the original romance situation. It could be that she is depressed which is preventing her from feelings of interest. She may not like her new extra pounds and feels like the ugly duckling. Or it could be something completely different from all of this.
Maybe none of these apply, but I would recommend looking into it. The change may help the other areas too.
Maybe none of these apply, but I would recommend looking into it. The change may help the other areas too.
Try promising her affection without sex for as long as she likes, no pressure. I got to 70 before I met a man who could do that, and to my surprise the urge came bacl