sex with an overweight woman

My lover and I are both 56. I'm 6'2 about 230 and very muscular, and she is about 5'5" and I'd say 220 or so... nice c cup breasts with a large belly and thighs. I think she's one of the hottest sexiest women I've been with. I'm rather well endowed, so we have to go slow at first with some lube, but after we get warmed up, its peel the paint from the walls hot. Is the sex better because she is heavy? The sex is fantastic because we care for each other, are more focused on giving each other pleasure than ourselves and just simply enjoy being together. She is adorable with a beautiful face and yes a sexy body! Her eyes dance when she sees me, with long blonde hair and is a fantastic kisser.

We both love oral, love to feel her cum as we go at it. Positions? We haven't had any problems with any position... Missionary, edge of the bed, her kneeling with me from behind, be at a 90 degree angle with her legs over my hips, her on top, I've even taken her standing against the wall, although that was tough, not due to her weight, but my height!!!! She never has problems getting me to rise to the occasion for round 2 before I have any right to expect it, and whether it is slow loving and romantic, or lustful, hot and animalistic, its just great.

Is this the best sex ever? Yep.. is it because she is a BBW? No its because she is beautiful, hot, and, sexy. But would I prefer it if she was 5'10 and 130? I dont' want to change a thing.

Hi well i am a 19 yr old girl i am still a virgin i met dis guy in a chat line its been 3 yrs we have been talking but we havnt met in person he has been telling me he is goin to come and finally meet but at da same time he tells me he loves me an i belive hime cause i have a strong feeling about him my point is dat we tlk about having sex but i tell him no cause am overweight he tells me he loves me just the way i really think he could be the one but am afraid what he is goin to think about me wen he sees me


I need tips thank u quinonez

This is ridiculous. I am thicker girl and I love riding and don't stop til he cums. How much stamina or work a thicker girl has or can put in depends on her fitness level. I run 7 miles 4 days a week but I am a size 12. Also I happen to be ridiculously tight to the point where I have to be soaking wet or getting him inside hurts both of us. In fact, I have heard most often that thinner women are more loose. I am pretty sure this has nothing to do with weight but rather genetics just like penis size has no correlation to weight. Also, I orgasm quickly. Maybe you're just not satisfying your thicker woman like you did the thinner one to whatever guy said that his smaller wife orgasmed with no effort from him. Unless you're woman is obese every sex position should work I would know. I love trying new positions amongst other things. Also, my current bf is huge but my last bf of three years was tiny and the sex is great with both guys. You all just need to explore your bodies more. My major turn ons are clit and nipple stimulation. As long as you include those in sex or foreplay I will be orgasming in no time regardless of my weight, his weight, my vagina size or his penis size.

As i'm reading all of these posts from beginning to end i'm noticing everyone saying the same things, so i guess most all positions work, but i'm just soooooooooooooooo scared to ride my bf. I'm 20 5'4 285 pounds, he's 22 6'1 150 pounds...do u know how skinny that is compared to me. He looks like a malnutritioned child. i'm trying to help him gain weight but in the yr we've been together he's only gained about 10 pounds. Anyway, i'm afraid to ride because number 1 he says he's attracted to me but i don't want him to be staring at all my fat, number 2 i don't want to hurt him by putting all my weight down on him when i ride and number 3 i'm not really sure how to do it. I'm just really uncomfortable with it but i want to do it for him...I NEED HELP! %-)

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Simo and Big Boy who are ya'll referring too? And 'm still havin this stupid riding issue. i kinda want to now but still can't. we tried a new position but it didn't work out quite as well. Seems like he doesn't wanna take out time to teach me, he just expects me to automatically kno wat to do. I'm not an amateur but i'm not a novice at this sex thing either. I jus need 2 lose some weight cuz this not working for my life...especially my sex life.

hello ...thats just not right babe. i would be willing to help u babe.. can u email me at

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.. im into women with meat just as your self babe...im a skinny guy and love women with meat on her...hope to here from u soon.

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If he asks you to ride him, go for it. He's seen you, he knows there's fat on you and he's okay with it! Riding on top of him isn't going to expose you in such a new light that he will suddenly find you unattractive. I'm 190lbs 5'2..overweight. My boyfriend is 6' and the same weight. He's strong and active unlike me. But we never have a problem with sex. There are a few positions that are less enjoyable, and a few that we've completely failed at lol. But we try them all. At first, we had the hardest time with me on top. We just couldn't work it out right. But now its his favorite so please don't be afraid to try it! If its a bust, then at least you got to try. And its perfectly okay to fail at a few positions. Just go back to a position you like after so you can finish off ;) If it helps, try some other positions so you can get more comfortable with him looking at your different angles. Like others have said here, my favorite is definitely doggie and also on my side with him straddling my legs. Another really good one that I haven't seen here is to lay down on the edge of the bed so your butt is practically hanging off and your legs straight in the air. then have him stand where he must so you can rest your legs on his shoulders. Works like a charm. 

I'm a big girl, 280lb and i love sex.... the only problem is that I have never had an orgasm during sex, but i still enjoy it! the problem is my boyfriend had a large penis, say 7 inches, and we tried to do doggy style once and it just didnt work! i think my arse is too big! does anyone have any tips of how we can achieve this, i.e is there any way we can position ourselves, so that i can do this position, i've been told that doggy style is a great one to make me orgasm! please help!

I'm a bigger girl married to a lighter guy, and although we do have a somewhat satisfying sex life, there are some positions that I am not comfortable doing with him because I'm afraid I'll hurt him. I think he might see my body differently than I see it, but I don't have that much of a self-confidence issue. I would really like some advice for this. I would actually like to look forward to trying new things with him, without dreading if I'm going to hurt him trying them. I don't always have an orgasm, and that in itself is frustrating. When I go solo during the day sometimes, I know what my body likes so I always finish, but my husband doesn't seem to want to listen to what I like all the time, even when some of the things he does hurt, or make me feel self-conscious. I love to be on top, and I think he likes it too, but sometimes I can stay there for ling because my hips start to hurt and I have to get off. When that happens, he seems to lose interest and go to sleep.

I am a big girl (5'11 265 lbs) athletic build, big butt and hips, a little bit of a tummy, size D breasts... my bf is 6'0 200 lbs, and is not all that big down there, probably 5.5 to 6 inches, and we have great sex so I thought I would throw in my two cents to help u big girls out who are having trouble. Feel like you are too heavy to climb on top? No problem... have him sit up in bed up against the head board, stand up on the mattress and straddle him, then grab onto the head board for balance and squat down onto his d**k. That way your weight is being supported by your legs and arms but you still reap all the benefits! Bounce up and down, and if your legs get tired, just be still and let him do some of the work while u rest. Being in a squat seems to keep my big booty out of the way and he can get very deep.
A way to enjoy missionary if you are flexible enough is for you to prop yourself up with a couple pillows behind your back, then put your legs on his shoulders and have him lean forward pushing your knees up against your chest... then have him scooter his knees up under your hips and kind of fold you in half, and go inside you that way... I like that we are face to face and he can kiss me or suck on my tits and we are both in a comfortable position so neither of us gets tierd, and it does wonders for my g spot :)
To that girl that asked about a way to do doggystyle with a big butt, I have a few suggestions... can you touch your toes? If you can, bend all the way over from a standing position and put your hands on the ground palms down with you legs shoulder width apart, kind of like a bear crawl, and let him go to town... this might not work if he is a lot taller than you though. If he bends you over a couch arm or the side of a bed and your booty is in the way, try putting one knee up on the bed/couch to give him a little room... I personally like to sit on my knees on the edge of the bed with my feet hanging off the side, then bend over and lay my chest on my knees like I'm in the fetal position.. it keeps your vagina tight but spreads your cheeks so he has less obstacles and more p*ssy! hope this helps someone out there have better sex!

P. S. I think you ladies are right, big girls seem to have a higher sex drive! I want it alllll the time, and my bf is like, AGAIN?? My old roommate is thin and she says she doesn't really even enjoy it, its more like a chore, but I know her husband is good in bed because she has told me. Wth? I think its all about attitude and being comfortable with yourself and your partner. Ladies don't concern yourself with whether or not he is gonna like seeing you from whatever angle you are worrying over... he knows what you look like naked, and he still wants to f**k, and you still make him hard, so leave your inhibitions on the floor with your clothes, and get you some! 

Everyone is worried about being over weight and having good sex, and positions not working, any one heard of ORAL??? My and my hubby are over weight and have two kids and have a great sex life.  You need to want it, tease him, sext him that you really wanna suck him etc.etc. I am in my 30's and never would imagine to sext my hubby but one dat he texted me that he was stressed at work and turned on,,,, so i took the leap and went from there.  Its not all about intercourse its about total package.  Our cue at night after kids fed, house clean is you wanna go take your shower now?? lol.. then we take showers and get ready for bed;-)  knowing were are both fresh and clean makes oral alot easier to jump into, start with kissing and touching to slowly going down on your partner find there oh my spot and work with it.  Tons of books out there on how to oral properly when I go down on him we both enjoy and i think i get wetter then his finish!  Then we always make sure to hook the other up before bed.  Our fav positions are doggy, or reverse cowl girl on floor tip tip!! move to edge of bed during play ask him to lie down on floor (already hot in his mind because its not the normal bed) with his feet at the foot of the bed kind of under bed alittle then you face away from him get down to your knees lean over onto bed and slide down onto him the you are more stable on floor and have bed in front for stamina/support, also works well for anal because you are not curved which is easier to penetrate and yo control it! how deep how fast etc. we have been together 15 years and things keep getting better, and sexting went to texting some nude shots.... yes overweight not so confident you take a pic at best angle set up camera with timer he loves butt and boobs! not complete body shots no tattoo areas of face for blackmale!

Girls dont be afraid of your men if you are overweight and they are with you all i have to do is go kiss my hubby kiss down his neck and ear reach down he is hard! Remember sex is a mental game too!  He kept spice alive and bought me my first sex toy this valentines time after i sext him and got him hot!  Again keeping things alive i have 5 toys now and he has a few sleeves too. our secret bday gifts.  some nights we do just oral, some just intersourse, some just masterbation together which is pretty hot to see who can finish first, and if we get a baby sitter all of above and add a porno it to mix it came free with our last toy order.

 

Happy wife, happy life!

Since my early teens I have been sexually active. starting with a neighbor adult lady and going from there. Have had sex with very thin, normal and larger women as well. In a few cases I have done some very big women. Of all women I have found the normal missionary position will allow satisfaction for her and me. If she has a large belly it will lay down, if large rear it will allow access with out problem. Of all of these I have had the best feeling from heavier women than thin. Some can work her self better than others, but none left me feeling I had missed out by her being large.

Sounds like your husband may be gay and due to his age has never felt comfortable to come to accept it because in his youth homosexuality wasn't something to talk about or admit to. If that's the case then it's time to live a little- you aren't getting younger so go out there and have some fun. And encourage him to as well?