i am newer at the whole sex thing and have met somone that i really want to please... she has never had an orgasm and i want to be the first one to make her have one... does anyone have any tips for me???
do some other stuff before you have sex ...make her really wet and get her very arroused then the rest will just happen. its different for every person
Don'ts:
Ask if she's had an orgasm (at least not until days later)
Expect her to have an orgasm
Feel like a failure if she doesn't
Be judgmental. If she wants to moan like a seal that's a good thing
Dos:
Make her comfortable. That's comfortable physically, comfortable talking about sex, and comfortable around you.
Spend time touching her.
Have a lot of sex and make time for it
Play with her and talk about it a bit (but in a fun sexy way). Knowing what the different bits feel like when touched will help her engage with the experience.
Let yourself be a manbeast sometimes (i,e don't overthink!)
Ask if she's had an orgasm (at least not until days later)
Expect her to have an orgasm
Feel like a failure if she doesn't
Be judgmental. If she wants to moan like a seal that's a good thing
Dos:
Make her comfortable. That's comfortable physically, comfortable talking about sex, and comfortable around you.
Spend time touching her.
Have a lot of sex and make time for it
Play with her and talk about it a bit (but in a fun sexy way). Knowing what the different bits feel like when touched will help her engage with the experience.
Let yourself be a manbeast sometimes (i,e don't overthink!)