So I’ve been masturbating since I was about 11 or 12 years old, but instead of “jerking off” like many others do, I lay on a surface, but my hands on my penis, and put pressure on my penis. I usually do this with my underwear or shorts still on. But all of my friends can jack off and ejaculate he normal way, but I can’t really do it my way. I sometimes see some dried white spots on my penis, but I’m not sure if that is from an ejaculation or not. Usually my underpants get kind’ve wet and one time I remember there being a wet spot on my bed after I masturbated my way, and I think this may have been a ejaculation but I’m not exactly sure. I’ve tried to stop masturbating this way and started to use my hand but I can’t find pleasure from it unless I push down near the bottom of my penis (near the pubic hair) and I can’t really ejaculate. So the questions I have are:
1: How do I know when I ejaculate?
2: How should I start masturbating the “normal way”
3: Should I be worried about any of this?
And just a little extra information to help answer the questions; I turned 14 about a month ago, I have armpit hair, pubic hair, and I’ve had a voice change, so I seem as if I’m going through puberty fine. I’m just worried about my ejaculation.
The stuff that is coming out is there much of it and is pee?
If it is a small amount of white or clear stuff that is sticky then your ejaculating.
The legs feeling that way when you finish is normal when you finish.