You talk about trust check this out I met my girlfriend on march we were talking she was a good girl a month went by and out the time I asked her if she was a virgin she said Yes so I belived her then on the past she was with another guy for bout 2yrs claiming she never did anything she swore up and down on my moms grave I want to belive her but it's weird cause she let me in on the 2nd month Cause she was really inlove as she said she's 17 now at that time with the other guy she was 13 she said she went down on him so I told her if you weren't a virgin just be real with me I won't get to to mad if you tell me now she swore on my moms grave and me. Should I believe her? Or is it me that's guilty for sleeping with more woman. I need advice
Hello, first i think that you should answer your own question "Do you believe her?". Trusting in someone is exactly that, believing. Its not a theory, its not a trial , its not facts. We all have our own secrets, and we should not be persistent about discovering other peoples secrets. Its just the way it is. From my point of view, you should believe your girlfriend regardless of what you think might be true. Does it really matter if she is virgin or not? She is with you, she loves you and she trusts you. Dont be bothered with useless problems that deserve no attention. Enjoy the time you spend with her.