i got my period when i was 10. i got raped by my father and now he is the step father of my child. please help me. i cant talk to anybody. My mom tells like in movies "your lieing" nobody wants to help me. please just post your comments. im have 20 weeks to decide. im pregnant and alone. again help me make a decision this wasn't my choice. i want to be a surgeon and to be married. i didnt ask for this. but im old enough to know that everything happens for a reason. i was reading this on the page and this was my favorite(it just got posted i guess) it makes feel bad to choose to abort the baby.

i was 14yrs old when i got pregnant. At the time i thought that had no other choice. i aborted my child and regret it. don't make the same mistake i did. it's your choice. just know if your letting the baby go because of a man remember who really gave you the baby as a gift. If you are not letting the baby go because of finances etc. you will be a selfish person for not giving that child a chance to live the life that you got to. life goes on only if it gets the chance to. time doesn't stop and guilt and torment doesn't either. im 28yrs old now i have 4 kids; (i'm supposed to have 5) 2 sets of twins 2 girls and 2 boys . im a pediatric neurosurgeon and married. i have the life that i have always wanted, but, that which is in the past never went away for me. i hope you make the right decision. and god bless you and guide you there. think smart, unselfishly, and caringly, and lovingly because that's how going to be when you have your child(if you make that choice). Vanessa Bennet