My older "friend" says that I should have sex. I don't want to have sex. But, basically he was saying that I am "sexually frustrated" and he was going on and on about how he knows that I want to wait until marriage or I am out of high school, but I really should get it over with...
What I am trying to say is that I feel sexually frustrated, but I don't know how to...releave myself of the problem without having sex. I've tried masturbation but I don't know if it is actually working or not...
*I am sorry if this is posted in the wrong area, but it would not allow me to post in the Sexual Problems area. Thank you.
What I am trying to say is that I feel sexually frustrated, but I don't know how to...releave myself of the problem without having sex. I've tried masturbation but I don't know if it is actually working or not...
*I am sorry if this is posted in the wrong area, but it would not allow me to post in the Sexual Problems area. Thank you.
i think,you should stop listnin to your friend about sex frustation!! its a very comman symptom among your age,keep yourself buzy in sports,friends and other work...its a transitional phase towards becoming an adult,i have been through this trust me its going to be very exciting..just enjoy no worries!!
I doubt that your sexually frustrated. You never mentioned your age tho. What
one doesn't have, one doesn't miss, in other words, if you have never had sex, how do you know it's sexual frustration that your feeling?
This person who is badgering you about sex could be the one who wants to actually have sex with you. You mentioned he is older. Please be careful of him. Sex is something that you just don't do to get it over with either.
You are the person that calls the shots here as far as when your ready to induldge.
Just stay true to yourself.
one doesn't have, one doesn't miss, in other words, if you have never had sex, how do you know it's sexual frustration that your feeling?
This person who is badgering you about sex could be the one who wants to actually have sex with you. You mentioned he is older. Please be careful of him. Sex is something that you just don't do to get it over with either.
You are the person that calls the shots here as far as when your ready to induldge.
Just stay true to yourself.
I stopped hanging out with him a little while before he said this to me. I know I'm not going to listen to him. I think it is just because it is the summer and I haven't been hanging out with anyone: I feel isolated. By the way, he told me this when I was a sophomore.
I thnk the best way to tell if you're masturbating properly is if you have every had an orgasm or not. It is different for different people though. Are you a man or a woman? Usually it is more difficult for women to start masturbating than men, mostly due to not much education out there! Let me know, okay?
suprswimmer wrote:
Okay so if you're female then usually masturbation works best with a lot of clitoral stimulation, and reaching an orgasm usually is an intense experience involving involuntary muscle spasms and a major rush of endorphins. If you have had one before then you would definitely remember having one. If you haven't then I imagine you'd be sort of unsure that you had one. There's some information on female masturbation here on the forums as well. Have you looked for any threads or done a search?
Female
Okay so if you're female then usually masturbation works best with a lot of clitoral stimulation, and reaching an orgasm usually is an intense experience involving involuntary muscle spasms and a major rush of endorphins. If you have had one before then you would definitely remember having one. If you haven't then I imagine you'd be sort of unsure that you had one. There's some information on female masturbation here on the forums as well. Have you looked for any threads or done a search?
suprswimmer wrote:
Hi there, I agree with what healthnfitnessguy has posted. Do you have any updates for us? Are you able to masturbate better or are you still curious? Let me know how you're doing okay?
Female
Hi there, I agree with what healthnfitnessguy has posted. Do you have any updates for us? Are you able to masturbate better or are you still curious? Let me know how you're doing okay?
The short answer to your posted question is NO!!
A very emphatic NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't listen to anyone who tries to feed you the line about how you need to get it over with. It's not something you want to get over with. It's a very personal thing you enjoy with someone you really care for and he feels the same about you.
Are you sexually frustrated or just frustrated because you think everyone else is doing it and you're not?
I know teenage boys and even men lie like hell about what they did with the girl they went out with and I bet girls are pretty good at that too. I'd like to hear BB's take on that.
Masturbation is a wonderful way to relieve yourself if that's what you need and when you have mastered the techniques that work best for you you will have a lot of fun and enjoyment from it. Every girl I have had the pleasure of being that close to has been quite different in what turns them on and what works best to give them the satisfaction we all seek.
There is plenty of good information here and around the net about it so look around. I'm sure you will find what you need. Remember we were doing it long before the internet was invented and most of us figured out exactly how to do what pleased us the most all by trial and error.
If any guy tells you, you need to have sex with him, tell him you'd rather do it yourself.
A very emphatic NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't listen to anyone who tries to feed you the line about how you need to get it over with. It's not something you want to get over with. It's a very personal thing you enjoy with someone you really care for and he feels the same about you.
Are you sexually frustrated or just frustrated because you think everyone else is doing it and you're not?
I know teenage boys and even men lie like hell about what they did with the girl they went out with and I bet girls are pretty good at that too. I'd like to hear BB's take on that.
Masturbation is a wonderful way to relieve yourself if that's what you need and when you have mastered the techniques that work best for you you will have a lot of fun and enjoyment from it. Every girl I have had the pleasure of being that close to has been quite different in what turns them on and what works best to give them the satisfaction we all seek.
There is plenty of good information here and around the net about it so look around. I'm sure you will find what you need. Remember we were doing it long before the internet was invented and most of us figured out exactly how to do what pleased us the most all by trial and error.
If any guy tells you, you need to have sex with him, tell him you'd rather do it yourself.
I very much agree! Men will say just about anything and it's best to wait if you're not ready. It's your body, and your choice. Do you have an update for us?
Well what i say is that you need to stop hanging around with this person. hes older than you and hes presuring you into it. just wait until you feel cool with having sex.
That's good advice. I hadn't thought of it that way before but it does seem as though you are being pressured. Let us know what you decide, okay?