I've always had big nipples and I admit that from age 17 or 18 on I took pride and pleasure in showing them by not wearing a bra. Now my bf (who got attracted to me because of my nipples!) wants me to cover them with a bra when we meet people. Should I obey him?
Certainly not because he is trying to control you by telling you that, you are an individual and therefore it's up to you how you look what you do and how you dress, do you think he would like it if you told him he could never look at another woman again?
If he can't handle other guys looking at your breasts then that's his problem and shows he has insecurities.
It went badly. He got angry right away, then called me a s*** because I take pleasure in exciting men. I tried to explian to him that having my nipples show gives ME pleasure and that I don't care how the other men feel about it. I mean it's plain exhibitionism I know that but I don't think it's a problem. It's good he got attracted by it but I had to be interested in him also for us to come together. He left and I didn't call him. I don't know what to do but I don't want to give in. This is my way of being.
I would say that someone who acts jealous and trust to control you isn't even worth the effort of trying to win back and you will be better off without him, the choices in how you dress and what you do are yours an no one should try to change that or expect you to change for them, be strong and stick to your principals on this.