I am female and my partner is quite large. After very "active" nights I am sometimes tender, swollen, and possibly slightly torn. No complaints. But, I am usually itchy until the swelling, etc. heals. Vagisil, etc. helps. The other night, I allowed him to perform oral sex on me for the first time. Without knowing what to expect, and he being very excited and aggressive, he was too rough and did not realize this. I believe that he sucked too hard, and perhaps a little biting took place. At times it was painful. The next day....my urethra is very tender and sore, my clitoris has a knot on it about 1cm wide and feels like it has a couple of small BB's under the skin. I am itchy from all of the activity. But, I am also worried because....although I realize that he was too aggressive.....I am confused about the symptoms. Help if you can. ?
Rough sex ends in rough patches. Tell him you enjoy his enthousiasm but that he may need to take it down a notch. It probably is just rough ..or should i say "passionate" sex.
I dont' typical use teeth in my oral, tounge and sucking work for me. But what you "young's" (sorry i don't know ur age..and well i'm not that old anyways ..24) need to realize sex is about communication. If its not working for you, guide him..train him... tell hime what u like..he won't be ofended...i wouldn't be. lol i odn't have that anatomy and i wasn't given an operating manual. its ur job to tell me (the guy) what works and what doesn't. :-D make sense?
just a suggestion.
I dont' typical use teeth in my oral, tounge and sucking work for me. But what you "young's" (sorry i don't know ur age..and well i'm not that old anyways ..24) need to realize sex is about communication. If its not working for you, guide him..train him... tell hime what u like..he won't be ofended...i wouldn't be. lol i odn't have that anatomy and i wasn't given an operating manual. its ur job to tell me (the guy) what works and what doesn't. :-D make sense?
just a suggestion.