Hi, iam a 22 year old male and still a virgin. I am a good looking lad and have been ask out loads of times by women. But i always feel a bit scared for some reasons and don't know why. I got good confidence and like i said good looking and toned. This real bugs me as all my mates know and take the piss (banter really). So how would you recommend losing it? I know i should not just lose it for the sake but its getting embarrassing now as ill be 23 soon.
thanks adam.
thanks adam.
Adam, there is nothing to be ashamed of, being a virgin at the age of 23 surely cant be worse than just losing it to some slapper for the sake of it and regretting it later. From a female perspective I would have so much more respect for a guy who was honest with me and to be quite honest wouldn't give a second thought to it. All I would be concerned about was whether you would offer me respect, and be eager and willing to learn!!
Losing your virginity is something you are only ever going to do once, and with the best will in the world it's never going to be the best sex you ever have, and placing a lot of pressure on it happening is only going to set you up for disaster, but, with the right person and a bit of practise it can lead to great things.
As for your mates, if it bothers you lie to them... how will they ever know the difference if you've been away for a weekend? make up some details and get them off your back for a bit.
Losing your virginity is something you are only ever going to do once, and with the best will in the world it's never going to be the best sex you ever have, and placing a lot of pressure on it happening is only going to set you up for disaster, but, with the right person and a bit of practise it can lead to great things.
As for your mates, if it bothers you lie to them... how will they ever know the difference if you've been away for a weekend? make up some details and get them off your back for a bit.